Looking for direction,and/or guidence, or affirmation about the journey I'm on,
2007-11-01 05:01:59 · 21 answers · asked by happysoulful 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Sure. But time will tell all. don't worry!....
2007-11-01 05:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Homophobia? Unlike many think it doesn't just mean fear of homosexuals, but irrational fear. This is why, People who come here quoting the bible, they are hiding or misled. Would Jesus judge us like they do? Or as another asked, before Jesus died on the cross was there a hell? I have many others for bible thumpers, but that isn't the subject at hand. The simple fact is they can't rationally provide an argument about how we're wrong. YouTube has given us a few videos to the opposite though :) Why homophobia? It's really simple, **** (or some actually use lesphobia now that is stupid) gay man and phobia a$$hole fear. Sorry I rambled, do you know how many trolls we get a day?
2016-05-26 21:48:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Conflict or anger itself does not have to cause an irreparable rift between partners. With good communication skills and a shared commitment to a marriage, even these are surmountable. How to save your marriage https://tr.im/pMA01
However, at that point where one partner is at the brink of abandoning the relationship, how can the remaining partner save their marriage? If you are at the point where your spouse has asked for a divorce, what can you do?
You must realize first that, you do have a choice. Often, when confronted by a crisis, we find ourselves backed into a corner thinking we have no choice in the matter. How can we change the situation when it involves another person's feelings or decisions? While we cannot, must not and in no way manipulate, blackmail or threaten our partner into changing their mind, we can actually control how we react to the situation. If anything, you must realize that you still have control over yourself. You have the opportunity to look inward and take responsibility for your own feelings and actions and even have the chance to take personal inventory of what your partner is trying to tell you. Are there points in your marriage that must be changed? If so, respond appropriately and proactively.
2016-02-11 09:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Kayleen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. Been married 11 years now. Here is an example...yesterday my daughter had a massive nose bleed (she's 1). There was blood everywhere and my other child was freaking out, so I called my husband at work for some advice and support and he basically brushed me off ( I only ever call him if it's important - never for trivial things). He couldn't step away from his desk for 5 minutes to talk to me. That kind of thing causes serious doubts for me. I begin to feel as though I don't really matter to him...
2007-11-01 05:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by MOL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have experienced doubts and fears. Relationships leave us vulnerable because we are putting our trust and faith in another person. It's normal to have doubts in the beginning, because trust must be earned. This is truer the older we get. After experiencing many relationships, it may even be harder to trust someone. Take it slow. You didn't say if this a love relationship, but communication is a key ingredient. Good luck.
2007-11-01 05:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone goes through moments of doubts and fears in their relationships. I am right now, but I'm wanting to be with him and not doubting more then the time I do doubt, so I think thats all they are right now just doubts and fears. Not me realizing I dont want to be in this.
2007-11-01 05:08:17 · answer #6 · answered by meri s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read the Screwtape Letters by CS Lewis (yes, the Narnia guy).
Though it is a Christian book and written many years ago, I have found it incredibly heartening when going through tough times.
He covers both sides of the issue: Blaming our faults on external entities (the devil, demons, etc.) and the danger of denying that we have these doubts.
2007-11-01 05:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. Sometimes its very hard to let go of them because of past experience where a person has been hurt.
In my case, I'm going to be leaving everything I've ever known and loved to be by his side in another country for the rest of my life very soon here and thats kind of frightening. The thing is that I do truly love him and couldn't imagine my life without him.
Why?
2007-11-01 05:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course.... that's why prayer is so important. There's nothing about feeling down and having fears but at some point you have to pick yourself up and continue to move on with your life.
2007-11-01 06:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, that's called being human! I don't know enough about what you're going through to give specific advice, but just know that it's perfectly normal to wonder or be afraid sometimes.
2007-11-01 05:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by bainaashanti 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I´m buddhist. I´m done with fears and doubts. I´m still questioning though.
2007-11-01 05:05:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋