If given the opportunity, would you do it?
2007-11-01 04:52:03 · 20 answers · asked by Andre 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No.
The sexual relation is only properly expressed in marriage between a husband and wife (1 Cor. 7:2-3). Any sexual contact between unmarried people is sinful since it violates God's design.
Sex is a wonderful blessing given to us by the Lord that serves to express intimacy to another. Some theologians believe that the sexual union is representative of the intimacy found in the Trinity. This is not to say that the members of the Godhead, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, have sexual relations. That is absurd. But there is an incredible intimacy and communion between them. The three persons in the Godhead are, after all, one God. This is why Jesus said that He and the Father were one (John 10:30). Remember, God says when a man and woman get married, they become one flesh (Gen. 2:24). This expression of physical union which has a spiritual aspect to it ("the two become one flesh") and is why some theologians see the sexual relation as a sacred experience.
We don't know if such speculations are accurate, but sexuality is to remain pure nonetheless. This means that the marriage bed must not violate the commandments of God in deed or thought -- no adultery, no pornography, no voyeurism, no bestiality, incest, etc. The sexual union is God ordained and God given and must be experienced in a godly way within marriage. In this, the sexual union can bring glory to God as it is experienced in fulfillment of God's design and purpose to provide pleasure, companionship, intimacy, and a means of fulfilling the command of God to fill the earth.
So the purpose of sex is to glorify God, bring forth children, express intimacy, provide comfort, and bless the spouse.
2007-11-01 04:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 4⤋
I have several times.
I would like to add to those who are severely misinformed, it has been statistically shown that the overwhelming majority of people (Christians included) have sex before marriage. So, opportunity abounds!
2007-11-01 04:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
What about After???
2007-11-01 04:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't.
I mean if she's HOT she could have a fever or some type of illness. I would have to say NO, yeah definitley NO at this time.
Yeah NO for me.
2007-11-01 04:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I often have sex with a hot Christian woman, but she's married.
To me.
2007-11-01 04:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Skooz 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes ! But the real question is would she? especially since alot of christian girls wait to till they are married
2007-11-01 04:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by maggie 2 · 2⤊ 4⤋
No, but only cuz I'm gay. Otherwise, sure. And I had sex with some hot Christian girls in HS without marrying them, so there ya go. :P
2007-11-01 04:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 5⤋
when is she going to get married...and who is giving you the authority...but there is if?
2007-11-01 05:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because they are screaming, "Oh My God" during sex, doesn't mean they are Christian.
2007-11-01 04:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by lunatic 7 · 3⤊ 3⤋
No. But only because of my wife.
2007-11-01 04:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by What? Me Worry? 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋