LOL!!!!! Isn't it just so amazing how 8 yrs olds are never for a loss of words? haha And the influence of technology makes it even funnier...
2007-11-01 03:28:18
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answered by supermom 2
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I don't have children, so you can take this with a grain of salt. But unfortunatly she is at the age where kids are starting to talk about sex and know that there is something that goes on between men and women, but they don't really know what it is. If you have had "the sex talk" with her and you have let her ask questions about it, and tried to answer as best you can. Then I kind of think it's a way for her to manipulate you, and try to show she has control over you. Because she is seeing that her behavior is getting a response from you. You stop what you are doing and give all your attention to her, and that is what she wants. It maybe that while your husband was away she enjoyed having you all to herself (I don't know if she is an only child). And now that your husband is back and you are trying to put more effort into your relationship with him, it may seem to her that she is getting less attention. Kids are about attention, good attention or bad attention, they want all of it. So just stop letting her know that her behavior is affecting you, sort of ignor it and it should go away. Like you know when a child says a curse word you are supposed to ignor it. It may help to have some sort of attention giving activity for her in your bedroom, like you bring her into your bed before bed time, and you and your husband read her a story, and then you take her to her bed and read her a story. Also, were you very unhappy when her daddy was there, and then you were happy when he was gone. She may feel like he is hurting you and she needs to protect you. Did she do a lot of cheering up mommy when daddy went away? She may feel responsible for your feelings, and she probably doesn't want daddy to hurt you anymore. Ask her how she feels about what has happened between you and daddy, you may be surprised by what she says. I cought my parents in the act as a kid, but it wasn't like they were in a karma sutra position or something. I just opened the door, and it was quite clear that I needed to close it again, I didn't say anything about it, and it never bothered me when my parents were naked together or with me, that is just family. Sometimes you're naked together. I took showers with my parents too, I don't see anything wrong with it. In austrailia, they encourage family showering because it saves water. When she comes running in, just act like it's normal to be naked together, becase it is. Just be like "What?" this is normal, your over reacting. Just act like it's no big deal, then she will probably know it's no big deal, and chill out about it. And lock the door, you can have some privacy. Hope this helps! Good Luck!
2016-05-26 21:31:39
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answered by paris 3
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Thats Hilarious.. your 8 year old is cool
Cheers
2007-11-01 05:30:03
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answered by Prince 6
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very cute. it sounds like she is at the age that she is wanting to act older and be a big girl. LOL
2007-11-01 04:06:34
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answered by emily s 2
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funny and witty for your 8 year old!
she seems like an adaptable child
2007-11-01 03:15:39
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answered by Mockingbird 2
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that's awesome! if i was her i would have been screaming down the street!!! i'm such a wuss.
be glad that your little girl is a tough cookie! i hope she doesn't loose that edge. it will help her later in life:)
2007-11-01 03:15:59
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answered by joey322 6
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That is so Kawaiiii. She deserves some extra candy.
2007-11-01 03:15:42
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answered by Aya Akutagawa Hyotei fangirl. 2
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yes that is hilarious. your kid must be really chill and she will have a great sense of humor when she grows up. good job.
2007-11-01 03:15:26
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answered by ashley f 3
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Awwwwww. Thats so cute! Thats very funny. ^_^
2007-11-01 03:15:11
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answered by blaze_tiger15 2
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yeah that is pretty funny and the joke was all on those idiots
2007-11-01 03:16:06
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answered by ~Cheta K.~ 6
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