Can someone explain this to me?

Question

lately I have had the weirdest dreams. Can someone plz tell me what they mean? Ok so the other night my dream was that I was married to the guy Im engaged to now. WE were living somewhere it snows but in reality we don't live some where it snows. This is the weird twisted part we gave this guy a ride who I work with in my dream and when we got to our house he asked me if I knew where my children are and he laughed really hard it was creepy and in reality I have no kids the two kids in my dream he was talking about were my two kids that I baby sat in the past that I loved like my own. Ok back to my dream so we walk in to our house and everything is gone I go in to the kids room and all there stuff is gone and there were thousand of bunnies in there then we turn to this guy and he shoot my husband and then he shot me but I tried pulling him out to call the police and he said you better talk a look again and he shot him with a gun but shot me with this needle looking thing.

then I woke up. then I had a second drean about this tunnel from texas to california all you have to do is go through this tunnel and you are there is 10 mins but the cops wouldn't let us through it was blocked off like another country. When I tried walking away I was really dizzy and couldn't even see straight. In my dream and reality I don't drink or smoke. Why do I have these dreams? what do you thing they mean?

oh at the end of the first dream he died of course and I was extremely sad.

kim k that is very interesting because
we are waiting till marriage to have sex.
so I guess it would be pure and inocent

Also about my co worker I work with all girls at a daycare. THis guy was danny devito that is the weird part. the only connection is that he is a good actor sometimes.

Answer 1

your not afraid of commitment but you do fear that something will happen that will ultimatly keep you from marrying your fiance, you also have a deep seated fear that you'll never have children of your own so that in your dreams your only able to have those that arent yours- ok that was a note from my friend kim ... here is my take

for some reason they were using your home to do lab work on a ton of bunnies and they accidently gave your husband the bunnies shots but no need to worry he'll wake up in a couple hrs.. plus it was only a dream, oh and what have you been eating lately ? stay away from carrots !

Answer 2

Sounds to me like you might have a subconcious urge to get away from something, but that isn't necessarily BAD. I think anyone questioning your desire to make a commitment or your relationships is jumping to conclusions based on the information you provided, but maybe not...maybe they nailed it.

Could be your dreams mean that deep down inside you would like to live someplace new and are trying to figure out how to get there, or you feel that commitments are (or will) hold you back.
Or perhaps you just harbor a desire to explore and see new places, and feel that you would be abandoning people who rely on you if you leave, even for just a while. And there may be a conflict because NOW you want to go places and see things but can't because of work or money or other commitments, and deep down you are concerned that if you repress those desires now, you will have the same urges later in life and won't be able to resist them later, which could destroy your family.

I don't know that much about dream interpretation, but I do know that ominous and fleeting thoughts and dreams don't necessarily mean something BAD. Sometimes we worry about things we want to do possibly having negative consequences for those we love-that reflects a deep sense of responsibility.

I suppose if I were to really go out on a limb maybe you suspect this guy you know at work is interested in you and could threaten your relationship and future family-that you are dreaming about-in some way, and you're trying to figure out how to maintain a friendly relationship without jeopardizing the ones you really love either now or later...perhaps there are even feelings you have for him that you're not really comfortable with-or sure about-and you feel like you need to run away from that before it is too late.

You sound like a very caring and mature person to me who is bothered by the fear of hurting other people if you just do whatever you want to. I'd say that could prompt some pretty strange dreams.

Answer 3

Ok, I'm not a dream specialist or anything but, heres what I get from it. The snow represents cold to me, so I would say something feels cold in your relationship? Or fear of the relationship turning cold? Kids represent Joy, taking them away would be sadness, So, maybe your overjoyed in your relationship now, but fear that joy will disappear? The tunnel perhaps is a way of showing you that their is light at the end, meaning it won't be all that bad, but it may be a little tough at times? The shootings? maybe a fear of someone trying to sabotage your relationship? the police? perhaps they are someone in your life that you look up to and respect , parents? Or someone you feel has more authority? Bunnies, again I would say represent happiness somewhere? That's just my thoughts on your dream, what ever the case, I wish you well!!

Answer 4

I'm not a professional, but it sounds like an anxiety dream concerning committment. Maybe you're afraid that your engagement will lead to settling, being stuck (thus the snow--cold, being confined). The kids, now being your own, weigh more heavily on your mind, and you understand you can't be as permissive with your own as you might with others (indulgent like a favorite aunt as opposed to strict like a mother). Thus you fear for their safety and you also fear for your husband's safety. The fact that you're shot too may mean that this scenario would devastate you. It seems to be fear borne of the idea of having truly permanently connected loved ones and contrasting this to the kids you teach--a sort of oblique empathy with their parents, perhaps.

So, this help any? Oh yeah, I forgot the bunnies. Maybe a fertility symbol? Also maybe you're torn between 2 men in your life, and you're trying to decide which is best for your future and your potential kids. Anxiety there? The 2 men could even be a wrangle between fiancee and father or brother in figurative manner.

Answer 5

Dreams in most cases a twisted presentation of facts about us. Had you been rather soft to this colleague of yours whom you offered a ride in your dream. Has this softness gone a litle astray--may be not from your side but by his but remained entire subjective to him. When you were married to the bethroted guy not any one whom you have loved the colleague might have found it all the more galling. The cold atmosphyere in the dream is the coldness that the colleague felt and in some way or the other there was a faint feeling on your part--may be due to some suggestive behavious of this colleague of yours during the marriage ceremony. The children were the children which he had dreamt of getting from you or else the symbols of maturity of your love for you husband and its flowering intothese boys. The colleague must have felt it them and your husband who was his competetior for your love all the more galling. This led to his reporting that the children had died and his murderous attack on you both for revenge. The revolver to kill the husband was necedssary for the impact. For him (the colleague) you were too delicate as to succumb tojust a pinprick.

You may deny it--and it may be true--you had may be inadvertantly roused some hopes in the mind of this colleague of yours which did strike you albeit rather late and led to the enactment of this mock rehearsal. It underlines the need of extreme precaution in cultivating even nodding acquaitance with office colleagues.

Unless you want a recurrence of this or similar dream in future you must find out a way to convince this colleague of yours about what's what,.

Best of luck.

Answer 6

Space princess who posted a response is real good at this.
Keep in mind this is your dream and the symbols in them are meant for your understanding of these symbols not the meaning of another.
I agree that "bunnies" could be futility, but them it could just be a warm fussy in the middle of all this harshness of the dream ( life is like that).
When dreams are a metaphor it is your metaphor. It pays off to pay attention to all your dreams and pull out the info the real you is trying to express.
Some dreams are straight forward, there is no interpretation, that is because you can expect or handle the truth of it. Metaphor gets you attention on a subject that is difficult for you conscious self to handle. You are trying to make yourself work at coming to an understand of what your truest self is communicating. Work is the key word here, your effort for a better you.
Dream journal, work on their meaning and have faith, more will be reveal led as you study and work them. This I can promise.
good luck on your journey through life and ITS wonder.

Answer 7

Well I get the impression that it was just a bad dream.

Yet it could mean that you just be careful to choose who you are friendly too in the future. Both of you and the family, Also always be mindful of where your loved ones are at every moment of the day, and to not take them or where they are for granted. Also don't be scared about the future since you are getting married soon. Enjoy.

Answer 8

It sounds too fantasy-filled to have meaning. You know what kinds of dreams you usually have. YOU tell what it means to you! Sometimes dreams are just that- dreams!

Answer 9

I think that maybe there is some sub-concious feeling of insecurity towards your relationship, and that you are worried about how you will cope in the future. Love your fiance, and be confident that no one 'better' than you will steal him from you!

Answer 10

Do you watch a lot of movies? This is too full of fantasy to make any real sense of it. You obviously have some fears of being killed and losing your children, unborn right now, and losing your husband... this is too much for one dream and one person, so I would chalk it up to something I ate before bed.
My dreams aren't soo vague and more reality based. Those that aren't I ignore and I've been fine.