He ended it with me a month and a half ago and after 2 weeks of communication I said I cant talk to somone who doesnt know what he wants. I'm sorry but its too hard. I said I was done. Now hes texting/calling like everything is normal? What the hell?
2007-11-01 02:41:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I havent been responding to him
2007-11-01 02:44:56 · update #1
It looks like your self control and maintaining your dignity has made him gain interest in you. You did not say why he broke up with you, was it because he was not sure of what he wanted or maybe too sure of you? Either way, if you do talk with him use caution and try not to fall so easy for anything he has to say. Best of luck to you!
2007-11-01 03:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like He's being how girls usually are.
He has mixed feelings and he likes also being your friend. Which is normal. However, you have every right to need time and space away from him to heal.
Plus if you push him away,
maybe he'll realize what he losing and he'll be more willing to commit. People oftentimes want what they
can't have, and disrespect what too easy to have.
If you think you might want him back exclusively sometime in the future, hold him at arms length until if/when he makes it clear that he's ready to commit.
If you want him out for good, then don't answer his calls, emails etc.
2007-11-01 09:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by andybosik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant speak for all men but i think most of them always seem to think that theyre could b someone better out there, and when they leave they realise they may have been wrong, so they keep in touch an give u just enough to keep you hanging on so that if they arent getting attention from someone else they can always turn to you for it. If i were you i would cut him loose and not speak to him. Its what he wanted so show him what its like not to have u anymore, an that means any part of u. Good luck sweetheart, u deserve better
2007-11-01 09:47:33 · answer #3 · answered by brandy w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he ended it with you, don't take his cries too seriously. I would have to say you are doing the right thing by ignoring him. If it hurts you to talk to him, don't. It can really damage who you are to put up with it. It will affect your life if you have the stress and dissapointment, and are reminded of it every day. There are plenty of good guys out there that will love you for who you are, it is time to move one. Good luck to ya
2007-11-01 09:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by stormdog3269 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is an idiot who thought he could do better then you and found reality to be different.
IF you really want to cut him off, learn from Lorena Bobbitt.
2007-11-01 09:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mad n Bad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him. You told him you were done and you meant it. He broke up with you so he should just deal with it that you aren't going to be strung along
2007-11-01 09:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by mommacat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow im sorry sounds like he realizes he made a mistake. . He lost you. . . His falt!! Don't stress it just explain to him how you feel.
2007-11-01 09:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will give up after a while, just dont respond to him...
2007-11-01 10:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's know he meesed up. now he want you back so bad,
it 's hard for a guy to let go of someone he loves
2007-11-01 09:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Joey B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change ur # and block his e-mail if u dont wanna deal with him anymore.
2007-11-01 09:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by bowash11221 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋