It happens across America every day..
2007-11-01 02:07:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
if they act outside nature,they should be outside the house,too
oh yeah,give me as much thumbs down as you like,it just shows how sick and bestial this society has become
2007-11-01 02:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by They Will Never Learn 2 · 5⤊ 17⤋
Once such are adult and beyond the responsibility a parent legally has -- then that is the choice a person has if the actions of a child are incompatible with a parent's religious or philosophical principles.
Why should a parent have to suffer the agony of having someone around whose lifestyle offends their very being.
Some things such as drunkenness and other mind altering substances, lewdness -- should not have to be tolerated in one's own house if not wanted.
If an adult child wants to live at home -- certain behavior, assistance with chores, and respect is naturally expected.
If the adult child is too anal retentive and too mean spirited to show respect to the parents -- get out, and good riddens.
2007-11-01 10:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Fuzzy 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
This is tragic and sad.
Even if you think it is a sin or wrong I see no reason why the only way to try and affect your child would be isolating and shunning them. May parents are conservative Evangelical Christians and openly declare it is a sin and they would never have done this to me.
My mom has often told me now that I am a parent myself that there will be things I disagree with like she doesn't agree with everything I believe or do but that I will find that loving my child leaves room for disapproving some things and continuing in unconditional acceptance at the same time. I like it. Leaves room to make some moral judgments of our own and yet not have those break up our relationships.
2007-11-01 09:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by ledbetter 4 · 4⤊ 3⤋
If they were my child before I learned they were gay, they would still be my child after I found out they were gay.
And God gave me that child to love and raise and do the best I could to prepare them for the real world.
I would love them every bit as much.
But I would not allow them to bring home lovers to spend the night, any more than I would a heterosexual child.
2007-11-01 09:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have asked myself when my baby gets bigger ( girl in the picture btw) God forbid but if she is gay how will I act? Well I would still love her the same. Christians should not kick their children out for this reason. I would say respect my beliefs and do not bring it into this home. Christians who put their children out and disown them are being hypocritical b/c although their sin is an abomination. The parents are judging and they will be judged.
2007-11-01 09:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by mariposa 3 · 7⤊ 4⤋
Parents have an Obligation to follow their convictions and their personal relationship with God. Mark 7:10, Luke 14:26...
True, 1st Corinthians 5:6 and Galatians 5:9... all sin is sin but the Bible tells you to Personally Obey God first. Children are to obey their parents...Kicking them out is More merciful than Old Testament law and is Quite lenient. Ephesians 6: 1-3 and not provoke them. Colossians 3:20. If they are ADULT enough to have any Kind of sex and dishonor themselves they need their own place to stay and pay the rent.
Romans 1:24 and Acts 2:37, 38, 40 is being merciful, forgiving and understanding..they are to leave them to their own choices. It does not matter whether they are homosexuals, lesbian, thieves, drug addicts, alcoholic, thieves, liars, slanderers and don't believe in a personal Savior.
2007-11-01 09:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by Stormchaser 5 · 2⤊ 6⤋
Its WRONG. A parent should love, support, and care for their children no matter what. If they disagree with their child's lifestyle, I can see placing restrictions on their behavior but to just abandon them like that is SO WRONG.
Personally, I wouldn't want my children to engage in ANY TYPE of sexual activity under my roof EVER - whether they are 15 or 45. I think it's disrespectful and wrong.
As far as what they do out in the world ---- well, I'm going to teach them what I think is right. If they deviate from that, I am not in control of that, but I will still love them.
2007-11-01 09:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Wizzle 4 · 8⤊ 5⤋
I think that if the House Rules are no gay lifestyle, then an adult child should abide by them if they want to live under that roof. Otherwise, out the door you go. If the child is underage, they should be grounded or similarly limited so as to abide by the rules of the house.
2007-11-01 09:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
They are sinners too, so who are they to judge. If it is their house, then they should be able to say you can't bring your friend over that is their right because it is their house.
As Christian's we must mortify sin not justify it. When it does happen we must know and acknowlege that it is sin and try not to do it again.
2007-11-01 09:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by budleit2 6 · 5⤊ 3⤋
To chose between Conformity/Accpetance and their children.
To a normal person there is no choise, while Zealots'lls acrifice their flesh & blood.
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2007-11-01 09:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Rai A 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
It is not just Christians...in my opinion Christian parents do have the right to kick rebellous children (of age) out of their house...(drug use, crime, gay) If the child chooses a life that is contradicting to the parents belief; they should leave.
2007-11-01 09:25:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 7⤋