2007-11-01 00:21:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I believe God wants you to be with the one you want to be with. Go with your heart; that's usually how He speaks to us anyway.
2007-11-01 00:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your own feelings about another person are critical in a relationship, but once you're in a relationship I'd evaluate how you're doing in it by looking at what comes out of it. If it's building up love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness and faith, then I'd say that relationship is a good thing. If the opposite is true of the relationship, then the two of you either need to change it into something good or you should move along with your life. The relationships you have with others, especially ones you choose to get into (as opposed to family that you're just stuck with) should be building up your relationship with God and never breaking it down. If you put the relationship with God first, he will give you help with any others.
2007-11-01 07:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lamborama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can be sure he would want you to Marry if you want sex. The relationship is much easier if it's with someone you are in basic agreement with, and is not already married. I think the Bible points to these things. So pray and ask your heavenly Father in Jesus name.
My advice is to have a relationship with someone with a twinkle in the eye for you and you alone. Someone you think smells nice. Someone who is similar to you in views. Someone you have PASSION for. Someone who wants the same out of life as you. eg baby's, where you live and so on.
I met my husband at 17 and we started our relationship at 18 and were married at 21. We have been married 22 years now. I think we just trusted God we were right for each other. We have tried hard and been through trials. Faith in God helps. And is rewarding.
2007-11-01 07:33:54 · answer #3 · answered by : 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you walk with the Lord and are in close relationship with Him I am sure you will know. Pray always and seek God's guidance
2007-11-01 07:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Wally 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your own pheromones and his (your husband's) will tell you. Biological/sexual attraction is a funny thing. You may start out thinking of someone as a nice, decent guy and then find yourself deeply in love.
Or, the reverse: a flush of excitement, a whirlwind, then you find out he's a self-centered lout who just told you what you wanted to hear.
2007-11-01 07:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you go and get what you want relationship wise for yourself, instead of relying on a man-made character of myth and superstition?
2007-11-01 07:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont'. You just hope for the best and do the best you can and things should fall into place.
Also it is not who God wants for you. God wants you to find the person you want to be with and do the right things while you are with them..
2007-11-01 07:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the best one. Then decide that that was the one God wanted for you.
2007-11-01 07:25:03 · answer #8 · answered by senor_oso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think God is actively involved in this? We make our own decisions often subconciously. Try to find out what you want.
2007-11-01 07:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by han_ko_bicknese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask god!!
just ask your heart and your mind, you'll need to ask both of them because leaving any of them out would cause you problems in any relationship...
be smart
2007-11-01 07:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by Freedom Fighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋