We made out after a party in the dark living room he put me on top of him touched me (down) and I touched him too i kissed his neck and we kissed and we had nice talks we were a little messed up but not that much. (buzz) Then another party happend where we just talked he touched my lips like he wanted to kiss me he even lifted my hood to look in my eyes, but he didn't try to come on to me I wanted to go for it but we both said we wanted to be friends (now aren't friends allowed to do anything?) I was afraid to kiss him thinking he will say no no we are friend or something like that.
question 1) Does this sound like the guy likes me?
question 2) Should I kiss him if this happens again?
I want to turn him on so he can come on to me how do I do that.
2007-10-31 19:47:38 · 3 answers · asked by madeinaugust82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Q#1: No. Both of you were buzzed, sloshed, stoned, wasted, drunk, whatever. Bad situation to get in to. He may or may not remember what happened that night. If he does, he might be embarrassed about the whole thing.
Q#2: No. See Answer to Q#1. You would be sending the wrong signals if you are friends. Do you do this with all of your friends - including ones you are not interested in? How about to your "girl friends" do you do the same thing as you did to him? Think about that for a while.
If you're friends, then what is the high-pressure about turning him on so that he would come on to you about? Why not try to let your friendship grow and get to know each other better and see if the two of you like each other for who you are, warts and all?
2007-10-31 19:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by djmirada_peridoteyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're all doing too much drugs or alcohol or both. Go easy on the substances, and maybe look around for someone else if he won't.
2007-11-01 02:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not interested the first time was just because he had to many drinks
2007-11-01 02:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋