Tell me.....
2007-10-31 19:44:30 · 11 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am raised to be polite and sweet to everyone. Yes, it has landed me in trouble (anguish, is the right word) a couple of times when totally unbeknown to me the other party started harbouring romantic feelings, which came as a shock. The problem with me is, I cannot be rude with anyone, especially if the other person has given me no reason for it. Being attractive physically as well (Vain? No, just honest!) adds to the woes.
Now, misinterpreting someone's sweetness as love? Never. Even if the person is truly in love with me I would be the last person to know. Reason being the same as I told above. I ascribe it all to politeness, good manners and good upbringing....
2007-10-31 23:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by P'quaint! 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeah many a times my sweetness has been misinterpreted as love,must be because girls are so soo.That so why when I talk to them sweetly they misinterpreted as love.I had many proposal due to this I had said them no coz I just want to concentrate on my studies and also I am in love with somebody else and love him truly.I don't like them hurting.Because I can understand that when someone says you no how it feels!Though I have maintain my friendship with some of them whom I think I should.Because I need a friend more then a boyfriend,coz they understand you more better and you feel good with them especially when you are broken.
2007-11-01 04:16:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No and Yes. I can't think of many truly sweet people that I know personally right now - my cat, my best friend, and did I mention my cat? I love my husband, but you could never really call him "sweet".
My actions have been misinterpreted many times, including my sweetness which was mistaken for love. More often my sweetness has been mistaken for stupidity. What a shame. It eventually requires that I keep a distance from that person.
2007-11-01 08:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not really. I've been awe-struck by the suddeness and sounds of sweetness, but when love comes knocking it has a different decibal from the pounding on the heart. There is quite a difference. Love's speed strikes directly to the heart, faster than a speeding bullet. I am very clear with my wording. If I am in love, that individual will know how I feel without any confusion from me.
2007-10-31 23:23:26 · answer #4 · answered by gone 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Modesty aside, am a sweet person. During my younger years in highschool and college, my sweetness with girls had been misinterpreted as love. Sometimes the girl think of me as numb because that sweetness for her had already been turned to love. It is really sometimes annoying that such situations happen.
That is why it is easy for me to be loved by girls. Modesty aside. I don't know but it is my nature. It is inherit in me already. The sweetness i bring though is a plus factor for me.
Sweetness like chocolates. He! He!
Thanks for asking. Have a great day!
2007-10-31 20:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Third P 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. once, and i hope i dont make that mistake again. i misinterpreted his sweetness, not for love but i thought that he at least cared. it was a guy that i dated for quite a while and he was the sweetest guy ever. he always made me feel amazing, and i'm a little self concious about the way certain clothes fit me, but with him i just didnt care. i dont think a guy has ever made me feel so confortable with myself like him. so i thought because he just seemed like he cared so much, i thought that he cared for me but it turns out that he just was out for a good time and he had no intentions of ever getting into a relationship.
it sucks, but it happens and it was fun while it lasted.
i dont know if my sweentess has ever led to misinterpretations but i know sometimes i'm really friendly with just anyone i meet and some guys just take it the wrong way, but other than that i dont think so...
2007-10-31 19:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think both yes. Once I met a person and I truly felt very comfortable with him and enjoyed him very much. but he clearly was just a friend. It did not upset the relationship and from that learned how to handle the other.
I met a young man (I say young because he was half my age), he had started his own business and I admired him, told him so, and my husband and I both went to his restaurant often, but then I learned through his cousin that he was truly fond of me. I was fond of him, but in a admiration way, but he was of me in another way. I remembered my experience of the past, and so applied what I had learned. We are still the best of friends and he now has three restaurants.
2007-11-02 18:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah it happens to a lot of people around the world. With the experienced I have, I guess the best defense was to wait until he/she utter the magic words "I Love You", or I Like You". Avoid having any false hope whatever sweetness he/she will do, its better the carpet was laydown clear...is it just simply friendship & out of kindness or its more than that...& the best way to know is him/her saying the words.
2007-10-31 20:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Crissa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Such misinterpretations do happen at times...quite undesirable, though, whatever the circumstances.
2007-10-31 21:32:10 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. At least, not in a very long time... I try to be clear; VERY clear.On my part, and the other person's. Communication is a huge help.
2007-10-31 21:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Ja'aj };> 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋