I love my ex very much, I'm clueless to why we even broke up. One day he wanted to play halo 3 instead of keeping his promise of spending time with me and got so mad that I was disappointed and he said "I don't think we should talk anymore" He has ignored me ever since I sent messages to him telling him how i love him more then anything in the world and he's hurting me really bad but he ignores it. Last week my cat of 9 yrs died and I usually go to him for comfort but again he completely ignores my message. I know he reads it though. He blocks me =( I was so in love with him he so it's so hard to let him go. I haven't sent him anything in a week but right now I'm getting the urge to but I know I can't cause he is emotionally abusive. He treats me like crap but I still love him. He use to tell me he loves me and wants to be with me forever but how can you ignore someone you loved for 2 years like this? I didn't even do anything! What can I do? =( I wish I had a good guy
2007-10-31 19:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by Kasey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not a net... I got all dressed up when he said he would spend time with me and i waited till really late at night till he changed his mind so i cried and he got mad that i cried :(
2007-10-31 19:26:41 · update #1
That's pretty tough... but the answer is easy.
Stop trying to talk to him! Once you stop trying to talk to him, he might realize what it is to not have someone caring about him and loving him, and he might start missing you. Even if he wants to be with you again, I say that you should move on. No one deserves to be treated so badly and to be ignored when you say you love him.
2007-10-31 19:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ada Relick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if this guy is really this cruel and abusive, then why would you really want to go back to him? You wish you had a good guy. Great. Now, first get yourself emotionally and mentally together and move on away from this guy who clearly has demonstrated that he is not interested in you.
Secondly, are you sure that you don't know why the two of you broke up? Was he not willing to commit? Were you too possessive or too controlling? Some guys just simply want to have time with their friends for "guy stuff" just like you ladies want time with your "girl friends" for some "girl stuff". Was there a jealousy factor that came in to play that "smothered him"? Think really hard about some of these questions as well as other questions that you ought to ask to see what was the real reason. It usually isn't a matter of blaming someone for what happened, but you really need to think this through. If the guy is a real jerk, then you really need to get going with your life and get away from BOZO the Clown.
Third, it seems he is moving on - blocked messages, blocked calls, ignoring you, doesn't care if he is hurting you, etc. Sorry to say this but you need to get a clue and move on. He has.
Fourth, before you decide to date again, make sure that you are mentally and emotionally healthy to do so. This time, don't put so much pressure on yourself to find a guy for the sake of hormones and "afraid of being alone". Do take time to find fun things to do - AS FRIENDS FIRST - and get to know each other. A date is really about finding out if this person is worth more dates and possibly relationship material. Until then, there are plenty of "good guys" out there. Find out what makes you and the "good guy" that you date tick.
2007-10-31 19:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by djmirada_peridoteyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.. im sorry to say but hes a lost cause. He obviously isnt interested and he isnt worth all your love. Ignor him, I know its hard but it will be better in the long run.
I BELIEVE IN YOU!
I know how you are feeling and trust me its hard (I havent beena ble to break up with my boy who hurts me all the time and is a complete d**k. It will help though and when you look back on this you will wonder how you could have loved someone like him.
2007-10-31 19:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know what to do. You even state it - I wish I had a good guy. Stop wasting your time, cut your losses and start moving towards something positive in you life. You're just obsessing over a bad person and relationship.
2007-10-31 19:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by roguepirate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to live well. Think about it. The more you try and contact him, the more you will push him away. Just stop. You're young, and it's time to stop wasting your time on someone who doesn't respect you. The best way to get his attention is to ignore him completely, and start your life all over again. Trust me, it works.
2007-10-31 19:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont act like a victim, listen to ureself!!!! find personal power and pride in ureself and create a rich life for ureself, u will look back at this and laugh and say poor poor me, i cant beleive the state i used to be in...
toughen up, u can do it.
PS: dont use the word love so loosely. that is not love.
2007-10-31 19:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself. You love him so much. He is so cruel to you. I wish I had a good guy. He is emotionally abusive.
Good heavens, girl! What kind of future do you see with a jerk like this? Think about it very seriously!!
2007-10-31 19:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex bf... That guys a prick. Move on, you didn't need him. It took me a while, but I moved on, and now I realize how bad my ex was for me.
It's hard... but loving someone that treats you like **** is harder.
2007-10-31 19:24:36 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls, I cannot stress this enough:if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.ditch his sorry,disgrace to the male population *** and find someone who will treat you with respect
2007-10-31 19:29:35 · answer #9 · answered by DJ rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a net bf? FORGET ABOUT HIM MOVE ON guys like the chase not girls throwing them self at them
2007-10-31 19:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Alysia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋