Today, Halloween, we were supposed to go to the get-together in Hollywood Forever Cemetary. I was bumed out that she wanted to invite other people so but I didn't tell her, I should have. I guess I looked 'sad' so she asked me what was wrong. So after a while we got to the get-together and they were charging $10 a head. We didn't have money so she asked me If we should get money, and I said whatever with an attitude. She picked up on it and said to forget the whole thing. We were so hyped up but I ALWAYS mess things up. I'm not much of a 'going-out' type of guy. So later we got into an argument. I ruined Halloween for her. There is NO WAY I can make her accept my apology. She then told me that she has not had a good holiday ALL this year. I feel really REALLY bad. So I want to make it up to her. I want to make her a '12 days of Christmas' thing for her this year. I just have some ideas of what I give her to have a good holiday. Any ideas? Romantic dinner,movie?, etc. We're both 21.
2007-10-31 18:56:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just quit acting like a jerk. Try to do things that she enjoys too, or you will never keep her. One day a great accomodating guy will come along, and you will be out of the door post-haste!!
2007-10-31 19:01:18 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track!!! A candlelit dinner ( especially if you know how to cook and I don't mean TV dinners either ). Soft music after the meal maybe turn your livingroom into a dancefloor and dance to nice music. A movie is not a bad idea either. A romantic dinner and a movie is nice ( that doesn't mean Friday the Thirteenth part 25 either ). You get the picture. You will find one of the beautiful things about screwing up you get to use your noodle on how to make up for the dummy mistake you made. I do it all the time. Sometimes it is delibrate just to make-up.LOL!!!
Good luck my friend!!!
2007-11-01 02:05:00 · answer #2 · answered by george g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright mister! looks like you got yourself into a big pickle! obviously since you ruined a holiday you need to make her other one great. first of all when you see her tell her this, "i'm so sorry baby, i know i messed up big time and ruined halloween for you. i know how much you looked foward to it but i'm really sorry that i flucked it up but since i ruined a holiday i'll make it up with another. just stay patient and i'll make this year's christmas the most special and wonderful christmas you've ever had? okay?" now THAT is a good speech, oh yeah by the way, throw in how stupid and dumb you were and how you'll never do it again. if you want a special christmas event i've got like, the perfect idea in mind. contact me through myspace or my email, i'll make it all right~~
-advicegiverxoxo
2007-11-01 02:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by myspace.com/advicegiverxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you want to make it up to her but christmas might be to late. Suprise her with something special that she loves to do ASAP. Remember that you need to always be there for her. Don't be the thing she dreads, be what she looks forward to. Good Luck!!
2007-11-01 02:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by DanniM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her gifts and pay morea ttention to her, try to cheer up for activicties, sometimes you just don;t like to do what she likes to but you can;t always make her do what you want to , I'm sure she does things with you even though she is not feeling the mood
2007-11-01 02:01:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're not both 12? Christ, I'm worried about our country's future.
2007-11-01 02:04:55 · answer #6 · answered by munkoski 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her and tell her to get with me, I can make her holidays enjoyable.
2007-11-01 02:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Jason P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her ur sorry and try harder next time....
2007-11-01 02:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lesley k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO REHAB
2007-11-01 02:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by rastus7742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋