This is the 3rd time we brokeup and this time its final. because he and his lame excuses we were chatting and then he gave his lame excuses he was so loving and caring and all of a sudden this breakup is driving me crazy
2007-10-31 18:36:01 · 22 answers · asked by Nafisa A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys Thank u so much for all the replies and answers. but it was really sweet,he was the best thing of my life,but his problem is that he is not courageous enough to take decisions.we broke up when we were chating he was not courageous enough to say it in front of me.his love,lots of love is making me crazy. he used to know what i am thinking or what i want & then talking on fone sending sms,we even named our children which we planned 2have in future & he just broke up again.he was the one who came back twice but this time i ahve had enough cant take this **** anymore but the pain adn the memories are really painful.the moments which made me the happiest person on earth now making me cry like hell. i only wanted love.he was faithful but a loser who does not have courage to face the world.i loved him with all my heart and soul. and this is what i get in the result. i am really losing hope. and i am broke totally.
2007-10-31 23:31:28 · update #1
ok, here is what you do....First of all get you a glass of cold water and wake -up and realize that you deserve better than this. There will always be more fish in the sea. Forgetting him will be the hard part, the memories will keep flooding in and the tears will keep flowing down but, you must realize that time heals all wounds and when Mr. right really comes along you will only look back on this guy with regret that you wasted so much time on him...let him go so the love of your life can come walking through your door..You can do this!!! You will see, all things will work for your good because you are being smart and realizing that your happiness is more important than a fantasy relationship that never was what you thought it was..Keep your head up and watch it all be ok..
2007-10-31 18:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by sassyivorygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold strong what ever you do! I just got out of a relationship that was similar. Breaking up and going back several times will not be the end of it. You'll start missing him so much that pretty soon the reason for the break up won't matter anymore and you'll go back to him. Beware: He knows this! Somewhere along the line he'll start thinking that he'll be forgiven for anything and start doing everything including being a bigger jerk. The stress from this will exhaust you mentally.
2007-11-01 01:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by MedicineWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3rd time!? Forget about him! He's a jerk! I know it's easier said than done. But, if you keep this up, you're just going to hurt yourself. I've been there before too. And I've learned that you just have to let go, because the tighter you hold on, the more it'll hurt. So, let go. Guys like him don't deserve you and you don't deserve them either. You'll only destroy yourself if you keep on compromising. There are a lot of fishes in the ocean anyway.
2007-11-01 01:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for it, I had a chick friend who went back out with her ex for the 5th time she wound up getting abused again, cheated on and forced to do things she didn't want to do, but of course she became a heartless ***** and is now hurting people by dating them for two weeks and leaving them, she's been with 7 dudes since her break up. Slept with 2 on the first date.
2007-11-01 01:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just answered your question, well part of it anyways, You just broke up with a JERK...... this is 1 BIG reminder as to why you don't want and need to be with this person.
Move on, go out, have fun, laugh, life's too short to be dealing with losers or as you've put it JERKS.
2007-11-01 01:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever talk to him seriously? you have to do that. Tell him how serious you are in the relationship if he's not them be strong do not communicate and leave him forever because you will not find the right one if he is still there near you until you found someone that fill up your heart.
2007-11-01 01:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh u just hitting the lonely phase, which usually comes after the crying phase...
just bit down don't call and know he ain't the only man out there for u...
what helped for me to get over a long relationship was hooking up with another guy...(i know it was rebound) but it worked like a charm..
2007-11-01 01:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not missing him you are just missing having something to do... i've been thought it b4.. pick up a new hobby and you'll be over the loser in no time and hopefully you'll have a new boy that's better for you. good luck don't go back to him.. if it was ment to be you would have broken up for the third time!
2007-11-01 01:41:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lizzy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always try to be innocent in front of him. Always trust him. Say sorry with lovely mood. Give him kiss without his permission. Say him, you are committed to do whatever he wants to ask ! Be happy and Good luck
2007-11-01 01:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by mx_kn_an 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet new people.if you like to chat,find new chat friend.i just broke up with a jerk too.talking/chatting or wutever really helps.there are some nice people here in yahoo!Answer.
Good Luck with everything.
2007-11-01 01:43:44 · answer #10 · answered by i^am^me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋