My ex has a pyschological problem, but I don't know what it is.
1st- hes a compulsive liar-lies about EVERYTHING big and small- his grades, height, bday, movies he's seen- everything- contradicts himself constantly and gets very defensive when confronted. It's blatant to anyone he speaks to. Extremely elaborate lies taken to extreme levels- lies to me, lies about me, lies about lying about me
2- he's the most arrogant person ever-only talks about how smart and wealthy he is and doesnt like talking about anyone else- brags constantly- HUGE ego
3- hes very awkward/insecure in social settings- laughs at wrong times- brings up irrelevant topics-Dumped me before I could dump him (even tho I was never going to!)
4-seemingly has no empathy! lies to my face, tells me he doesnt like what im wearing- doesn't feel bad to hurt others and contradict what he promised them
2007-10-31 15:13:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
is this narcissistic personality disorder? pyscopathic liar? compulsive liar? something else? what is this it's so bizarre
He really liked me and I was nothing but good to him- and he suddenly turned on me
2007-10-31 15:14:21 · update #1
5- temper- HUGE fights with his mother- very disrespectful to her
2007-10-31 15:15:40 · update #2
Seems like a sociopath to me, and a compulsive liar. Be glad he is your EX !
2007-10-31 16:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like someone with big-time self-esteem issues. Usually, the more someone brags--or says things to disregard the feelings of others--the less they really think of themselves.
You can't love anyone else unless you really like yourself first.
You talked about how he mistreats his mother; is his father in the picture ( or there but emotionally distant?). Sounds like he needs to work out issues at home and then with himself--by himself.
Some people never "get it". Be thankful he's the "ex" now.
2007-10-31 15:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by zarf2154 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you got some things right there as in the pathological liar. In a nut shell, he is very very insecure so he tries to make him self look like he's the greatest, makes him feel better. Sound like he really doesn't like himself very much neither and he doesn't even realize it. He needs some help girl and you can't give it to him. Sorry your going through this and sorry he is to.
2007-10-31 15:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM A MOTHER OF 3.. AND I AM WITH MY KIDS 24/7.. AND ILL BE DAMNED IF SOMEONE TELLS ME IM A BAD MOTHER BECAUSE I LEAVE MY KIDS WITH THEIR GRANDPARENT FOR A WEEKEND... ESPECIALLY IF I CAN ONLY GET OUT A COUPLE TIMES A MONTH!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW DARE HIM SAY THAT.. YOU WORK, CLEAN, COOK, AND TAKE CARE OF THOSE KIDS, AND IT WOULD BE A MAN TO SAY THAT... A MOTHER HAS EVERY RIGHT TO GET OUT OF THE HOUSE AND AWAY FROM THE KIDS SOMETIMES... WE ALL NEED OUR FREEDOM EVERY NOW AND THEN. SO IS HE A BAD FATHER BECAUSE HE DOESNT SPEND EVERY WAKING MOMENT WITH HIS CHILDREN??? TELL HIM TO GO SCREW HIMSELF.. AND UNTIL HE DOES IT 24 HOURS A DAY 7 DAYS A WEEK, HE HAS NO ROOM TO JUDGE U... I COMMEND SINGLE MOTHERS. AS LONG AS YOUR CHILDREN ARE WITH A TRUSTED ADULT, AND YOU ARE NOT BRINGING DIFFERENT MEN AROUND THEM ALL THE TIME, YOU ARE A GOOD MOTHER AND SHOULD NOT FEEL GUILTY ABOUT TAKING TIME AWAY!! IT AGGRAVATES THE HELL OUT OF ME TO EHAR PEOPLE SAY THAT JUST BECAUSE I GO OUT FOR A DRINK ONCE A MONTH WITH SOME FRIENDS, THAT IM A BAD MOTHER!!!!!!!! PLEASE!! AND 99.9% OF PEOPLE WHO SAY THAT, DONT HAVE CHILDREN!!!! AND CANT POSSIBLY KNOW WHAT ITS LIKE TO RAISE CHILDREN DAY IN AND DAY OUT!! I KNOW THIS WAS MORE OF A STORY THEN JUST AN ANSWER BUT IT OUTRAGES ME!! HE IS PROBABLY JUST MAD BECAUSE YOU ARE SEEING SOMEONE ELSE.. AND NOT HIM... =) HAVE A GOOD DAY!! AND NEVER FEEL GUILTY ABOUT THAT
2016-05-26 05:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he abused as a child? That's the number one cause of chronic lying. Possibly by his father? It doesn't have to be sexual. I say his father because he does not seem to respect women (poor example from his father on how to treat women).
Be very careful about asking him. You don't want to make false accusations.
2007-10-31 15:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't u ever heard of this saying, the way a man treats his mother that is the way he is going to treat his wife. so honey looks like he did u a favor, so that u can find the right guy for u. he sounds like a spoiled little Mommy's boy.
2007-10-31 15:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by precious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a classic physiopath to me. lets just hope he doesnt end up killing somone (resent studies show that 10% of physoiopaths end up killing atleast onse in there lifetime) btw, there is no treatment for physiopathology, hell be like this till he dies.
2007-10-31 16:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by EvilX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By any chance does he have a little penis?
2007-10-31 15:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by ANGEL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE MOVE TO THE NEXT ONE.HE IS NO GOOD.
2007-10-31 15:22:10 · answer #9 · answered by Farrah D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋