people dont listen to me!?

Question

ok my problem is that people make fun of me what do i do to make it stop its not a big deal im just so fed up with this one kid! i dont want 2 make it a big deal and i did say stop

also i try to get peoples attention but they dont hear me why?

thnx everyone
and lol gustache

Answer 1

Your post is quite vague but I'll have a go.

"If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you always got."

You have to have your own boundaries of behaviour of what you will and will not accept from other people.

You say people don't listen to you, does your body communicate the same as your words? Sometimes you have to show people a different way.

Are you tring to prove/qualify yourself to them or gain some kind of validation from them?
Like impress them with your knowledge or make them laugh with your jokes or something like that?...

Natural answer is just to react with "no".. But be honest. If you are, stop doing it. You have to be conscious of what you are doing.

Maybe people make fun of you because they get a reaction out of you? That is what gives them validation. Show no emotional reaction to it and don't even logically answer them. Your unreactiveness displays you as higher value than them.

That doesn't mean if they were like hitting you or kept tapping you that you shouldn't do anything. Sometimes you have to take action in to your own hands but use common sense and judgement.

Changing your own behaviour is key to changing other peoples response to you.

It's not WHAT you say it's HOW you say it.
Actions speak louder than words.

Hope this helps :)

Answer 2

You're a kid and you have to find your way. It isn't easy because you would rather just be accepted. These days kids don't accept anyone for any reason. Don't let anyone who makes fun of you an issue if you can. Move away and don't incite or invite a response. Don't let them know it bothers you. Shrug and move on if you can. Not easy, I know, but try. Bullies don't usually like to continue to bully if they don't have a receptive victim. Take marcial arts classes and learn some self esteem. You'll be better for it for your whole life. If you want attention, figure out what kind of attention. Do you need friends? Do you need school recognition? Whatever it is find what you do best and do it. Friends and recognition will follow. You don't need to ask for it. Be your own person and follow your dreams. People always follow dreammakers and doers eventually. You might just have to be a late bloomer.

Answer 3

Once you hear your self others will here you! You need a little more self confidence be a stronger bolder person and people will start to hear you.

Answer 4

just ignore them and they will soon stop, you can get the attention of people when you talk with sense and dont forget to be friendly

Answer 5

Yeah. I can understand that.....I couldn't even finish reading what you said in your question.