My partner's mom passed away just recently of cancer., She was only 49 & passed away in 3 weeks . It was so sudden that I really don't know how to comprehend & both of us are beyond devastation . Please enlighten me.
2007-10-31 12:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
The best way to cope is to realize that we are all here for a limited time, and that our time with our loved ones is precious. You and your partner enjoy your time together and rejoice in all things that make you both happy, because that is exactly what his mother would want both of you to do if she could talk to you right now.
2007-10-31 13:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by 6 · 9⤊ 0⤋
I lost one of my best friends suddenly when i was in my late teens and another close friend last year,so I can relate to what you might be feeling.
Ultimately for me,it was the thought of not seeing them again that was causing me the most grief.
Then I realised that just because I can't physically see them anymore,doesn't mean I can't continue to communicate and feel a connection with the authentic part of them that never dies!
I dont no what your beliefs are,but I beleive death is not the end for our loved ones and they are around us whenever we choose to connect with them.
So accept the passing and know it is not the end of your relationship with them.
A book called 'Lessons from the light' by Dr Kenneth Ring really helped me.It gives accounts of peoples near death experiences, and describes the unconditional love that greets our loved ones.
Wishing peace and healing to you both.
2007-10-31 13:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to deal with, I know. When my grand mother passed away I wasn't expecting it it came out of the blue and I sat their in shock for the rest of the afternoon after my father called and told me. The best thing you can do is be there for your partner to give comfort.
2007-10-31 13:02:55 · answer #3 · answered by Belgariad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to kind of make peace with it...I know this is not easy, but you have to face the reality of it and time will do the rest.... I am sorry for your loss....
2007-10-31 13:04:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a God and we were created in his image. Adam and Eve. male and female
We all will die. And then comes the Judgement. think about it.
2007-10-31 13:07:36 · answer #5 · answered by Winters child 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋