I am losing hope. I've become completely depressed. I don't know what to do anymore.We were only together 4 mo
Should he and I get back together? He said that he is not violent.That he would never hit me.?
Where did I go wrong?
Oh No!!!! He is dating someone else!!He told me that I am the reason he acted this way! Will he treat her nice
Abuse? What did I do wrong.I'm depressed again?
Was he on his way to being abusive to me?We broke up three weeks ago. Why am I sad that he's gone?Am I paranoi
I met a man online in June 20 of this year. Everything was very pleasant in the begining.Then these things happened:
1:He made fun of a past relationship of mine that was abusive. He said "All Robert had to do was slap you around to get you to marry him!"
2:He got angry because I wanted to go home and punched his wall.He yelled at me and said"Look at what you made me do!"
3:After two months he wanted me to move away from my aunts house and move to the city he's in. We only live 30 min apart.He said that he would rent a car and help me move my things.He started looking at apartments in his city for me.
3:We were arguing and he told me that I was acting like a" f***ing c**t."
4:He came over and when he seen my aunts home he said" Gosh!How cold you live here?This place is depressing!" "Gosh! Look at your room! How depressing."
5:Another time I wanted to go home.He yelled at me all the way to the bus stop.Once we got there he started shoving my shoulder saying DONT LEAVE!!
13 hours ago - 1 week left to answer.
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He said that he has never behaved that way before.Then said he would get frustated when I would drink.I told him that he acted that way even when I wasnt drinking.
2007-10-31 08:58:10 · 10 answers · asked by Butterfly 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
He's abusing you. All abusers are inherently dangerous. Get away from him and get yourself help. Also, drinking makes depression worse. Try very hard to find a better way to cope before something irrevocable happens. Good luck.
2007-10-31 09:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rebeckah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be glad that he is out of your life. Even if he was not physically hurting you, sounds like he didn't treat you like you should be treated. Control issues are not fun.
Keep your chin up, hold your head high. You wil get through this.
Sounds like you're very close to your aunt, talk to her about it. Family is a good thing.
2007-10-31 16:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by Andy R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you be depressed that you didnt want in an abusive realtionship..he got out of it because he new he couldnt control you he has to have that power over a woman ...count your blessings you cant save the world..only yourself
2007-10-31 16:06:58 · answer #3 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an abusive relationship. Do not take him back, things will only get worse. People only change for themselves.
2007-10-31 16:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Meow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very obvious this relationship is dysfunctional, and only through couples therapy should a reunification be considered.
I wish you the best.
2007-10-31 16:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound all mixed up. Are you having a nervous breakdown or something? Better seek some help.
2007-10-31 16:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him
there are much better guys out here. this person sounds abusive and someone who you shouldn't hang around with
2007-10-31 16:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Runnnnnnnnn....far and fast away from this person. You are setting yourself up for a lot of heartache and pain if you stay... good luck and remember to LOVE you!!!!! =]
2007-10-31 16:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by apple martini 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is bad news- you can do better!
2007-10-31 16:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by poniegirle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him and forget about him
2007-10-31 16:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋