we broke up not too long ago. things were great as always, we spent every minute together, she practically lived here and was going to move in 3 days before she broke up. and then out of nowhere an email saying its over, no reason nothing, then a couple days later she came by to grab all her stuff, and said it was lack of communication and she lost every feeling for me and will never be able to get them back. and belive me this is not like her she is the most emotional person i ever met. could she be on drugs?
2007-10-31 07:04:23 · 19 answers · asked by wilcomply 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My divorce really hurt me too.
Get in a divorce recovery program...
They will help you the best.
Good luck.
2007-10-31 07:12:10 · answer #1 · answered by Wrong Answer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone.
This sounds very erratic to me, to go from moving in to breaking up is way too out there.
People say lots of things when they are emotionally stirred up. Take some time for yourself, maybe she will call after she realizes that she dumped you and it was a mistake.
If she doesn't call, move on. She is acting weird. If she is on drugs, would that make it better? People often look for explanations to erratic behavior, when in reality, if she is on drugs, count yourself LUCKY that she left now!
Find other things to do in the mean time.
2007-10-31 14:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps what you felt as cooperation, she felt was smothering her. The next woman you meet, because the pond is teeming, try doing some of the things she enjoys, not just having your own way. A marriage is between two people compatable in one belief, not one life. Perhaps she just needs time to miss the goodlife you shared, let her go because nothing you say to her at this point can bring her back. one thing for sure is that she has to change her mind, you can't coax her to, so don't waste your time.
2007-10-31 14:15:47 · answer #3 · answered by Marcus R. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is ironic that she says that you have a lack of communication problem, but she broke up with you over an email. I would say you need to move on, she is not the one!
2007-10-31 14:08:25 · answer #4 · answered by victoria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drugs? Maybe, but not likely. Looks like she met someone else. Relationships are a two way street. You can't force her to get back to you. You need to move on and start thinking about what you need to do and try to keep your mind off her by spending time with friends and family. Avoid self-pity. Its destructive. She missed out, her fault.
2007-10-31 14:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by ridewithgdotcom 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My friend, you may be better off without her. If she is that emotional, then she has some deep seated mental issues. Are you sure that you want to deal with that??? It sounds like you were with someone who will only create a lot of drama if you continue. Get out and find someone more emotionally stable. I know how you feel.
2007-10-31 14:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'd tend to think she met someone else and is using the lack of communication as an excuse to get out.
2007-10-31 14:10:27 · answer #7 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, that's how people deal with breakups. Doing it in a cold way allows them to not cry or think about what they are doing. It's easier emotionally than to stand there crying & feeling guilty about it.
I would explain in one call or e-mail that you would just like to know what happend and that is it. If she is unwilling, just move along.
2007-10-31 14:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by jtbrick1208 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know seems like she got scared of moving in and took a run for it and couldnt tell you that so she broke it off. if she is so emotional which equals dramatic then i would just move on. you'll find a saner person
2007-10-31 14:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by lizgas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on
2007-10-31 14:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋