ok...im back on the dating seen for about a month now and i want to be more...carefree when it comes to meeting guys...the thing is when i meet a guy i like i obbesess with if hes ganna call...well i ended up meeting a very sexy guy this past weekend and we made out and it was fun..hahah i hadent fet that free in a long time...but problem is im obbsessing with him now..hoping he calls wondering if he just wants to use me..its driving me nuts..im annoying myself lol...so i want to be more like a guy...i just dont want to care..i want to hook up and never think about it again...i want to date and not care if they call...any tips (= and dont say im not ready to date i am...i just get attached becuase i was so used to being in a relationship...i want to have fun..so bring on the tips!
2007-10-31 06:57:31 · 8 answers · asked by *Lovely 2* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is he did call..and we just kissed a lot of girls do worse things.
2007-10-31 07:05:32 · update #1
Don't be like a guy..that's how you end up alone. You don't want to live your life and look back and not be able to count the one night stands you've had. See, when a girl hooks up with a guy..we feel an emotional connection. That's just us. That's how we are. There is nothing that you can do to stop it..we are just caring people. There are boys like this also although they are not open about it.
Don't worry about it..if a guy doesn't call..get over it but don't be carefree. That's why guys like us..because we care so much. Maybe too much, but better than nothing.
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Goodluck
ashummz05@yahoo.com
2007-10-31 07:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first off since you met him last weekend he is doing the wait and see approach if he really likes you. when us guys meet a girl and have fun with her if we really like her we will wait 3-5 days then we will call her and see what's up. if you don't want to wait for this guy then call him up and find out what's going? if he says nothing or seems to be not interested than forgetaboutit. wanna be more like a guy just go out and be a flirt and have fun
2007-10-31 14:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by gasguy695 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just make out with a guy and stay busy not all guys are like that though see when i make out with a girl i want to make sure im not calling to early of too late i get so scared before i call i really dont know why
2007-10-31 14:06:06 · answer #3 · answered by colby t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get physically involved with a guy withouyt your emotions getting involved too. Don't make out with someone until you KNOW him better. Of course he's not going to call you if you act like that. What guy would want a woman that easy? Back off. Don't let your body get involved until your mind has a commitment from him.
2007-10-31 14:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by susie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's what I do.
The only thing you need to do is:
Don't call back.
Let them call you.
Find a lot of guy-friends.
Don't obsess over one.
Have your options open.
'Cause when you do, then you're not only thinking about one.
Instead of worrying about this dude.. Just go hang out with your friends.. or make out with another guy. Go shopping. Go party with your friends... Have a life ...
2007-10-31 14:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't want to not care trust me it isn't like that with all men and I am kind of insulted by that generalization. I personally obsess almost as much as that sometimes it is just hormones.
2007-10-31 14:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Chuck C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell urself that there are plenty of fish in the sea. when one door closes another one opens. so relax who cares if he calls back. and if you like him that much u call him. if its meant to be it will be.
2007-10-31 14:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience isn't that what women do anyway?
2007-10-31 14:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋