ok so last night he wakes up in the middle of the night and wants to leave me, then 30 min. later he's sorry and wants to be with me telling me he'll never leave me. we have been arguing everyday now for a week and 1/2 and i believe i'm wrong most of the time. however i'm willing to change. now i called today to give him some news on things that we are planning and he answers the phone all with a platonic voice and i know somethings up, so i said u busy? and he says yeah? i said would u like to call me back when you're done? and he says yeah? and hangs up, i think he said bye. anyways he calls me back and i said hey, what u doing? and he's like nothing, what u call me for? (very rude) then i tell him what it was and he sounded ok then he says ok and acting all weird with a very rude voice. then i said is everything ok? and he was like yeah i gotta go and hangs up without even saying bye. now i been with him for 4 1/2 years and things are getting worse? what does this mean?
2007-10-31 06:52:41 · 11 answers · asked by Hopethishelps! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he was having sex or cheating because that's how people are when they are cheating. I would just tell him off and tell him if he don't change then we are through. You should have got an attitude back. When I call someone and they get an attitude before they get their first word out I hang up the phone. I don't play that and you shouldn't either.
2007-10-31 07:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sexybrowneyes7553 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's seeing someone else or on some type of drug. I hear depending on the drug, it makes people have mood swings like someone that snorts powder. My husband does that and he treated me the same way and I had to let him go because it got worse and he started putting his hands on me. When he woke up and told you it was over he was trying to find a reason to call it off. For him to be rude for no reason there's something up.
2007-10-31 07:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what it means but it does mean that you need to talk to him about it. He sounds like he's annoyed and stressed...maybe with you, maybe with life in general. You won't know until you ask him, don't ignore it and hope it goes away on it's own because it probably won't. I remember feeling annoyed 24/7 with ex's and it was always because I was into someone else and frustrated that I couldn't be with them...but that was in high school and I think pretty normal. I guess it depends on your ages...maybe he's just confused.
2007-10-31 06:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by laura1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to ask him. From past experience, when I got this kind of attitude and responses from my ex.. it's because there was someone else around and he had to keep up the appearance that I was nothing but a nag, which I wasn't, but since he made me out to be that way.. had to keep those appearances up. Not saying this is your problem, but you need to talk to him about it and get to the root of the problem.
2007-10-31 07:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl...when u get the answer...please let me know!!!! im kinda in the same position... everything happened this morning from 12 AM to 2 AM!!!! he even went as far as packing his stuff and leaving...then returning like 10 mins later... I dont know what I did...or What happened but hopefully things will b fine...give him time...and again if u get a good answer please tell me
2007-10-31 07:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Kristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he act silly then leave him for good.. You dont need a man like him...There are lots of nice men and he is not the only one...Find a proper lover and make sure he is nice deep inside...
2007-10-31 07:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by calipinay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means your BF is a damn woman!!! Bi polar maybe?
Who knows,..you young punks today are wierd. No need to go through trouble in life...give him space and see what he does (but I can tell you he is gonna ***** on why you havent called him) in which case just dump him and find a cuter bi-polar dude..there are plenty out there.
2007-10-31 07:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to trim the dead weight and look for a new model. He is only going to drag you down with him.
2007-10-31 06:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on your wayout it is just a matter of time before you get dummped so dump him before he dumps you!
Get a clue your not as special as you think you are so get ready it is coming....
2007-10-31 07:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a psycho.
2007-10-31 07:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by partyinmypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋