Well i live in a grouphome and i did it with a seventeen year old and of course i thought i was pregnant. So i tell the people there and they do not believe me. what should i do
2007-10-31 06:49:16 · 43 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First red flag: How old are you?
Second red flag: Did you use protection?
You should always always always use protection. There are worse things that can happen to you besides getting pregnant. Go to see a doctor/take a trip to planned parenthood. Not only will you need a pregnancy test, but you should also be checked for any sexually transmitted diseases.
If the people who run the group home do not believe you, then you need to find an adult who will. This shouldn't be hard. If you attend school, I would go to see a counselor.
2007-10-31 06:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kate the Great 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if you think you are pregnant you should talk with a responsible adult. Teacher,guidence counselor or foster parent. If you are just telling people to impress them, your wrong.
Sex can be deadly if you are casually "doing it". You should respect yourself and not be having sex till you are an adult. I can tell you this all day long and you not listen thats just part of being a young adult. Please go to a local clinic or something. You not only need to find out if you are pregnant but be tested for sexually transmitted disease as well. Some of these have no symtoms at first including HIV. You dont have to have sex to show someone you care about them or prove yourself. If this is the case then the other person is disrespecting you and they are not worth it. I hope everytime you are put in a situation like this my words will come back to you. You are special and worth respecting. Someone told me "to accomplish great things,we must not only act,but also dream,not only plan,but also believe." Believe in yourself and show respect to yourself and everyone around you will also. If you disrespect yourself and body then everyone eles will also. I am adding my email if you need an ear. I have 5 daughters so Im use to the hard questions. kimberleyz_mail@yahoo.com
2007-10-31 07:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by Kim D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex would be a good start. Until you have reached the age of legal consent you should not be having sex at all.
As I have said here before; Are you financially ready to support a child without state or local government assistance?
Are you old enough to hold down a full time job to support a child? Are you responsible enough to give up everything else and dedicate your life to a child? Is he man enough to take responsibility; hold down a full time job and help support you and your child?
If you are living in a group home, my answer to all of the above would be - NO!! You've got your whole life a head of you, why screw it up so early?
Now that my lecture over, if you think you are pregnant you need to keep telling the people that are running the facility, if they still won't listen, talk to a teacher, councilor, parent of a friend that you trust.
Just please hon, you've got a long life ahead of you - sex doesn't need to be a part of it right now.
2007-10-31 06:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by femalepit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter if others believe you. If your pregnant you don't need others to believe you, you need to seek help from a doctor/nurse who can help you with your pregnancy whether you go through it or not.
The very fact you ask this particular Q suggests you are under some kind of peer pressure maybe to sleep with some one and you feel you need to prove it. It is no ones business who you sleep with. You would be very silly to go sleep with some one just to seek some peer attention. Sleeping with someone is an act of responsibility and should only be done with a partner that you can trust and should only be done because you want to do it not because others claim they've done it and tease you for being virgin maybe. I am 24 nearly and I am a V and I'm a male! Cause I want it to be special with someone I love and trust not so can brag to my peers and friends.
Pregnancy is also an important issue. If you are, seek advice from a doctor/nurse and only go through with if your stable and well off enough to bring a child into the world otherwise in my eyes you'll be committing a sin against the child as it will not have a stable life and neither will you. so think about it. sex is not game it comes with responsibility. And as it seems you got into a silly mess like this get yourself tested for std/sti.
I'm not having a pop at you, you clearly have issues but remember in future you do things because you feel its right not because others approve of it or are doing it.
Good luck.
2007-10-31 07:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by vik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the School nurse and explain what you have just told us and she will be able to help you.You can also get a cheap Pregnancy test and take it 1st thing in the Morning.If you have a dollar tree in your town there only a $1.00.Abestence is the best policy ,But if you are going to have sex you need to use protection there is so many available out there that you or anyone else have no excuse fir no using it!
2007-10-31 06:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be more careful, and maybe just be
quiet about it and try not to let it happen again. Do you
want to lose your place in that home? That's what will
happen. You are probably feeling lonely and isolated' having
unprotected sex is not the way to go right now. Fix your
broken life first, then find a sex partner later.
2007-10-31 06:54:41 · answer #6 · answered by judy f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, there's not really much you could do unless you got checked out by a doctor but what you believe and know in your heart is what matters. Every girl thinks they're pregnant after the first time. Just take it easy and don't worry about what everyone thinks.
2007-10-31 06:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by poopykins81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, why are you in a group home? and why do you want ppl to believe that you had sex with some random guy, doesn't that give the illusion that your a lil to free? or open? i don't want to offend anyone. Most woman have respect for themselves and what happens under the sheets stays in your keeps not the worlds. oh yeah and studies prove that blood pt tests are the best way to go. not urine
2007-10-31 07:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by theoneuenvy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you doing that? For attention? If so stop, because you will end up getting pregnant. Since you are living in a group home, your baby would more than likely be put up for adoption, because you have no way of providing or taking care of it.
2007-10-31 06:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not something to be proud of. Especially before you get married. If you are pregnant, don't be a MURDERER! That means having an abortion, either keep the child or give him/her up for adoption...it's hard, but I was adopted and it is the best thing ever. Save a life.
2007-10-31 07:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋