so here is my story.i praposed a girl on 27th august.at that point of time she says that she needs some time 2 think.....from that day we r spendin our lots time with each other....but we r just frienz....many times i try 2 conveince her 4 a relationship but her answer remains d same.....so pls tell me wat sud i do....pls help me.....
2007-10-31 06:42:20 · 21 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try talking to her in normal english so she might be able to understand you, and then take it from there.
2007-10-31 06:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by B-MOC 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you really like her you should give her the time she needs to make her decision. You don't want to push her into saying yes and end up broken up a few months down the road because then you'd be out a girlfriend and a friend.
2007-10-31 13:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First , keep carin her as u always did an tell her that if she does nt agree to relation, u respect to her decision and ready to wait if someday she agrees. well, thats not the end, just the begining....
Second, everyday make her feel that you love her but u are not gonna say anything about it as u respect her decision..
The moment she becomes quite dependant on you, make her feel that you cant stand this relation of 'Just frend' and going out of her life.. and leave....
Thats it.. and magic will begin soon... give it a try..
2007-10-31 13:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to forget about it.
Find a new girl and move on.
It sounds like she's too immature.
Or ask her why she's not ready.
Or ask her if she actually needs time or
if it's just an excuse.
2007-10-31 13:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like her very much.... AND YOU PROPOSED?!?! You guys are friends! You are trying to convince her of having a relationship with you?
Dude.. a bit desperate... Chill out a bit.
Take your time with her, start slow, date, see how it goes.. you will scare her off with that behavior sweetie
2007-10-31 13:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as if your clinging on to her to much, some girls REALLY dont like this, she only wants to be friends as you said so stop preasuring her. The only thing to do is ask if she feels anything for you apart from a friendship, if she says no, accept it, move on.
2007-10-31 13:57:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jade B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't show her that you are soooo desperate for her cuz just to ave fun she will act more and more like that try being normal and theen you hould stop being soo persuasive then later when she starts thinking that you may just quit and forget her by that fear she will respond to you in the right and positive manner!
2007-10-31 18:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by just me!vid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to answer and make her decision if she still young its very hard for her to give her whole life away just wait give her a chance.
2007-10-31 13:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her to give u a thight hug. if she does then she is suerly into with u!
and if u really want to be wid her be cool and the best weapon to impress is laughter. make her laugh all time and support her emotionally. she is in ur hands!
2007-10-31 15:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by chins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just friends to her you have to accept it. quit asking her. if you want you can let her know it is a standing offer and when shes ready to let you know. but im sorry i dont see that happening.keep her as a friend, but find a new love interest.
2007-10-31 13:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by womanofghostbear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to spell
2007-10-31 13:45:44 · answer #11 · answered by laughingatyou14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋