Why is life so unfair?

Question

I eat super healthy
Im a vegetarian
I havent had fast food in years
I don't drink sodas
I don't drink coffee
I don't drink alcohol
I don't smoke
I don't eat processed foods
I excersise

but....

Im kind of ugly and balding.

Other guys drink alcohol, smoke eat at McDonalds when ever they feel like it but where born handsome so they get all the girl looking at them and have dates for the weekends.

I am alone and don't know what else to do to improve my looks. I guess I will be lonely forever?

Answer 1

Look at the bright side, there are medications for balding we all get old and look the same and you don't have health issues so you will be able to get old, period!For males and females alike looks aren't everything, usually someone looking for good looks is shallow and not very respectable, then again you can end up with the sweetest most beautiful person(to you, I already found mine!), just wait.

Answer 2

Well let me tell you something, looks are only skin deep, & they don't make up the person. I mean you could be the best looking person in the world & be a dumb as a rock (& we all know a few of those, they are singers, actors, jocks, cheerleaders, etc.)
My hubby doesn't drink, smoke, do drugs, or even party for that matter. He hasn't got a whole lot of hair left, but boy is he sexy.
Have you thought about completely shaving your head, growing a goatie, or anything like that? Try changing your appearance just a little & I bet you will feel so much better about yourself.
Then stop looking for those girls that are BEAUTIFUL..... There are plenty of very pretty women out there & some that are even cutie. Those are the ones you might find have a whole lot to offer to someone in the way of companionship, friendship, & love. Give every woman a chance look beyond the body & made up face, look at their heart & soul. It is what is inside a person that makes them special. Not all that fluff on the outside.

Answer 3

Cheer up dude, there is a girl out there with your name on her. LOL, that was kinda off the wall. My only question, you do know that fat is an essential part of the human diet right? Truth is, to someone, I garuntee you are not ugly. I always thought I was ugly, and would never get a girl, I went up until this year before I met my first girlfriend. She was attracted to me even physically, she wasn't just saying I was cute to make me feel better. Think about the things you like to do. Find one of those things that you can do with other people. A: you will have a blast doing it, and that is the best time to meet a girl, it helps break down the shyness. B you will be forced to be around other people and get noticed. Don't be so hard on yourself, (I have not evidence backing it up) you probably really aren't ugly at all. Besides that is all in the eye of the beholder. I cannot as a guy say that you are good looking, that is something I can only share with a girl. Try to do things that make you more outgoing. Good luck, there are plenty of fish in the sea, just gotta get out finshing to find one

Answer 4

I could give you the typical, self-motivation speech about how you should just accept yourself as you are, and not worry about getting dates because one day the perfect girl who will love you just as you are will come around and give you that happily ever after everyone seeks-- but really? That's a fairy tale, and the truth is, if you want to change yourself now, instead of waiting for the one, to score with the "hot chicks" for the "hot dates" and the chance at the "hot sex".. you should get plastic surgery and a toupee/hair implants. But you can't stop there, though! Get a higher paying job, get a newer car, get a bigger house, get a new wardrobe, whiten your teeth, get a fake tan, etc. The possibilities are endless with what a person feels they must do to be desireable to the opposite sex!

Personally, the route i've always preferred is to just be ok with your own company. The desperation of needing to be with another human being shows only the inability to be accepting of yourself. You have to be ok with the idea that your perfect match may never come, and that there is a possibility you will be alone. But you don't have to feel alone, that is the difference. To be whole with yourself is the ultimate achievement you can feel in life. There's so much life has to offer outside of a "date". Really.

Answer 5

Focus on the power of positive thinking. Ask for a DVD called the SECRET. That's what you need. Watch it a thousand times. You've been down in the dumps and have programmed yourself to feel the way you feel based on your actions. You think that you're not enough but you are! Thoughts determine your ACTIONS, your actions determine your HABITS, your habits determine your CHARACTER, and you character gives birth to your DESTINY!

As a 31 year old salesman, I still ask myself what I want to be when I grow up? I have made a personal decision to see a great Family / Marriage Counselor who has been working wonders in my life on many supressed issues from childhood. It's never too late to seek help to better develope your character and nothing to be afraid of either. I never thought I would be the one so focused on counseling for 9 consecutive weeks. You can do it! You just have to come to that personal decision that "You're sick and tired of being sick and tired!" I bet you're a humorous man deep down inside. Use that on the dating scene. If you carry yourself "like you're all that", people will pickup on your energy and be drawn to you regardless of your looks. People long to be apart of great and fun energy! That DVD that I mentioned at the top is based on the "Laws of Attraction." That is the secret. Looks will only get you so far!

Answer 6

You, my friend, are on the wrong end of the bell curve of society. The way you are going, you may be facing a long, but unhappy life. The alternative, is to live fast and die young(ie Jim Morrison, James Dean, Elvis Presley). Anyway, just realize that you have choices. Change your place, change your life. Best of luck!

Answer 7

Well, yes you will be if all you do is complain about yourself online. Get off your butt! Go do something! Get into the social life and meet people. Meet people on an online dating service. You can't sit around and feel sorry for yourself, I wouldn't want to be around you either if you always had this attitude.

Answer 8

i think you should put a pic of yourself up to get some proper advice.
we cant really give you much advice on how to improve yourself with nothing to go on.

but maybe you can change the clothes you wear.

even if you were balding, but you exercise and look good then you shouldnt have a problem getting someone.
you probably look to thin or too fat.. something needs to change.

Answer 9

You seem to be focused on what kind of outside appearance you have...
There's someone out there for all of us...and especially for those of us that are beautiful on the inside...
It can be depressing at times..I know...but hang in there..a lot of women are NOT impressed by "handsome" men...the mature women that can get past all of that..go for the guys with great personalities..are you one of those?

Answer 10

ones looks is how they feel. You look ugly if you are always angry and mad at self and others. But people looks better when they are happy and sutff...
so if you are always treating others horrible and screaming and yelling and with that type of attitue of thinking you are ugly then you are truely ugly ..
i don't think your diet has anything to do with looks ...
ps. you sound like a grumpy old man ..