I had a big crush on her, she asked me for career advice (we're both in business school) and I noticed she was flirting with me. She mentioned her BF (in a diff city) in passing, but continued speaking in this innocent yet mischievous way. Later she got me a postcard from spring brk, but when I asked her to dinner, she ignored me for 2 weeks, only to ask me out a week later. I refused her this time (thinking she's playing). She got visibly jealous that week that I was dancing with another girl at a party, we didn't talk for 4-5 wks. Then, I gave in/said hi, asked her to dinner. At a party that week, she asked me to dance and we rubbed up on the dance flr, she said "I'd like to get to know you" but at dinner she again talked about her BF. I decided to forget about her, she called 2 months later asking to meet. We met, but she was a little aloof, we made plans to meet the next day but she blew me off. She looks pretty/flirty with other guys too, drive me nuts. I feel like I blew it. Help
2007-10-31 05:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by riddler 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, feel horrible that I'm hopelessly attracted to a girl who is obviously playing me (she has an innocent/mischievous way of talking, makes me just want to jump her). I resent the power she has over guys.
2007-10-31 05:39:35 · update #1
This girl is bad news. If you become her boyfriend then she will be going on dinner dates with someone else talking about you in passing. How would that make you feel? She is manipulative, and she is not a very good person if you ask me. If you just can't stand to be without her, then you need to tell her how you feel and ask her to reciprocate. I'll be honest, however, she will almost cetainly blow you off. She is shallow, and she doesn't care about you. She is lonely and you are nice to her and that makes her feel good for a while. That is it.
2007-10-31 05:50:44 · answer #1 · answered by kyleford1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I've read your other question before. Stop for a moment and you realized this stupid girl is playing with your emotions. Stop wasting your time with her and find some other woman who will value and appreciate you more - There are tons of women who will love you for who you are and have a serious meaningful relationship. It's best to stop looking and let love FIND YOU.
2007-11-01 02:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this question already and everyone on here told you shes playing you. Its nothing you did, she is just playing you. Period. Its tough but You gotta move on man.
2007-10-31 05:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haa
2007-10-31 05:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by Fuzzybutt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not try to understand the girls , even god has admitted he has not understood
affairs are like job hopping for business graduates
2007-10-31 05:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait wait wait. boy friend, dinner?? stop messing with this *****.
2007-10-31 05:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please get her out of your mind. you will only end up being hurt.
2007-10-31 05:41:51 · answer #7 · answered by austin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋