ok so i made a mistake by touching my gf's butt in school. My gf;s bro. found out and then told her parnets. Now they hate me and i can't do anything w/ her. I'm serious. I can't even sit at like a table w/ her w/o her mom staring at me. making sure my hands stay above the table. everything is wrong and messed up. I can't see besides in school or school activities. It sucks ****. I really love my gf and i want to respect her word that i shouldn't talk to her parents. I really feel like i can change them. I'm a good negoitiator. I don't want her to get in trouble or it to get any worse but I just want to have a normal relationship w/ my gf. Now for the questions:
1) should I talk w/ her parents?
2) Do u think this can get better?
3) what should I do to show her parents I've changed? (don't say do stuff to show them bcuz I can't do anything around them?) I'm not very good at writing.
btw we're 16 and in 11th don't say we're too young. This is just unwanted drama. PLZ real answers!!!
2007-10-31 05:15:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her mom. Tell her the devil got the better of you that time and that you are truly sorry and will never do that again because you love her daughter. Ask her to give you a second chance so you can prove to her that you have really changed. If she still will not believe you, there's nothing you can do but ride the wave. She will eventually back off when she feels she can trust you again. And please remember, trust is the hardest thing to gain back after you lose it, so next time be more careful.
2007-10-31 05:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Maloy5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, if she says don't talk to her parents then don't... even if you're successful she'll just be pissed that you did what she asked you not to do, and I imagine she must know them better than you so there must be a reason. It sounds like there is really nothing to do but wait it out and maybe they will forget... sucking up never hurts though. If there's a car that needs to be washed, or garden work to be done, or something to that effect... be there. You need to somehow show her parents that you respect her and them as well. All any parent wants is to know that they're kid is being taken care of. Also get her to B.S. about how you're always helping her in school. It sounds like you don't really know her parents and like they don't really know you, that's got to change. She needs to invite you over for dinner or something and when you come over bring flowers for mom and talk sports or whatever with dad. In other words you desperately need to get in good with mom and dad quick. Sorry if it didn't help, good luck!
2007-10-31 05:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by Fatima K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fess up mate.
This has stemmed from not your (perfectly normal) behaviour, but from GF brother spreading (no doubt) crap and your gf's parents believing without question.
Take the time to go and speak to the parents while your GF is not there, maybe say that you have fears that this is an issue, and put them straight.
Explain that your intensions are genuine and if they are descent people they will see the truth.
If they don't hey, time to get out of there...
Good luck though..
PS you mention change as if that is a good thing?
It is NORMAL to want to touch your girlfriend...
That is part of the deal after all.
2007-10-31 05:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by Jaws P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get along with girlfriends' parents either. If they don't like you now, wait till they find out you're having sex(if you do/are.) The only thing you can really do is show them they don't bother you and you want to be with that girl no matter what they think. Eventually, they may come around. I would also suggest NOT talking to them about that incident. Talk about some common interest with the parents if you have any. Don't make it apparent that you're just trying to make up for that one TINY mistake.
2007-10-31 05:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by mike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her mom she is lucky you didnt touch her cooter.
2007-10-31 05:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋