Hi, well basically I just had a dispute with my dad because I accidentily put some greasy cloths in a clean pile.
Anyways he got angry and geuss what threw my daily trips to the library in my face. I told him that I go their to study but he said I just go there to escape housework. I am the only sibiling that does housework!
The thing is last time anyone stood up to him he beat the hell out of them and I don't want that to happen to me. He is in a bad moode but that's no excuse to go around bullying ppl. What should I do?
2007-10-31 03:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by Husain F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi. No one has a right to hurt or frighten you. That is abuse. How old are you ?
2007-10-31 03:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by bikerchick77_uk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a shame your father chooses abuse and isn't very rational when it comes to your studies vs. housework.
If you have to study, and go to the library, well, you are taking care of your responsibilities... it's simple as that....
As far as your clothing is concerned, maybe keep your dirty things in a basket in your closet, or separate from everyone else's... that way he doesn't have to complain anymore.
Your father really needs help with his anger issue, but as you may know, he is the only one who can change. I'm sorry you have to live with someone like this.
I don't know what you ought to do, short of avoiding him when he is in one of his moods.... take care ok?
2007-10-31 10:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just a bully, i don't know how old you are but guessing around 14-16, best advice keep out of his way and when you can move out, if he beats anyone else in the family report him, good luck.
2007-10-31 10:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by MISSY G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you did not think they were clean
and you wanna get on with your studies right
why would you go to the library if you wanted to get out of housework you could just go somwhere fun to get out of the housework
your dad should be happy for you
most people round here wanna have fun not do work
so your right
working is better that fun
SO
summing it up you should tell your dad
2007-10-31 10:17:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call child services you shouldn't have to worry that your dad will beat the hell out of you-and don't throw your dirty clothes on the clean pile anymore
2007-10-31 10:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by suan b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father should not be allowed to beat you under any circumstances and I agree with you that he is a bully. Call social services or talk to a teacher and report him. Please talk to someone who can help you so that you can stay safe.
2007-10-31 19:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by Magz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. It isn't worth getting beaten over. You made an honest mistake, he got mad and lost it. He wasn't ready to hear your explanation and he just threw crap in your face because he was mad.
Just leave it.
2007-10-31 16:31:07 · answer #7 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get some help from social services if your worried about him beating you.
2007-10-31 10:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋