Is it better to have EDUCATION before the marriage or after the marriage.?

Question

Nowadays children are having a very tough time to complete their education because of their problem with love matters. What do you prefer whether to have the marriage committments after the College education or before that. Why you want to choose that type of arrangements, please explain

Answer 1

I am getting married in about two months, and both myself and my fiance have our college degrees already. We met only a few months ago though, and I know that if we had met in college we would have gotten married regardless of if we were done with school or not. Simply because we believe that once you meet the person you are meant to spend the rest of your life with, why bother stretching out a dating relationship or engagement? >L

Answer 2

This is coming from a woman who did not get her education first. Looking back on the last 12 years of my life (i am 30 now) I wish I had got my degree before goining into the family marriage and kids thing. Once you start adding in all the other distractions that marriage brings as well as a full time job, getting your education is hard. Not impossibly but hard. What would take you 4 years to complete has taken me a lot longer when I can only take 1 or 2 classes a semester. With 3 kids, sometimes not even that. I am encouraging my 10 year old daughter to be almost done with college before even getting engaged or having children. College is a time to find yourself, your dreams and your goals, if you try to add too much to your plate, especially a family, you don't always get the chance to do what you need to do in that regard.

Answer 3

We're older, so we're getting married even though we're still students. I think the added support really helps with my schooling actually. We live together, like we're married, so it's not that big a deal for us. Many college students live with their boyfriend or girlfriend, so if they're commited, they may as well get married if marriage is their thing. It just takes a lot of compromise, communication and similar goals to keep a relationship lasting. I don't think there's anything about college specifically that makes it impossible to be in a marriage, but I don't think most 19 year olds could handle it! College doesn't change people as much as your early adult years do. It's good to wait until you're at the very least 23 to 25 to get married whether you're in school or not, just don't get pregnant and screw up your life!

Answer 4

I'm getting married in a few months. My soon-to-be husband and I are in our 30's, finished with graduate school, and doing well in our careers. I think it's much easier to go through university single, and not bring all the stress of studies and lack of money into a marriage. If you each finish your education first, you'll each be established when you start your life together. You'll (hopefully!) have jobs and incomes, and you'll have more time for each other than if you're students.

Answer 5

We got engaged while in college, but said we would wait until I finished my undergrad degree(husband is in grad school) to get married. But then I had to sit out a year, so we kept the wedding on schedule.
But I would say get your education first, or at least most of it, because if you don't you might end up dropping out or not doing as well.
However, I also think it is up to each individual couple.

Answer 6

My fiance and I will both have undergraduate degrees at the time when we are married, and my fiance is immediately starting grad school to get his masters of Divinity. I might go back and get a masters' degree later. We feel that education is important, especially since the job market requires higher education all the more emphatically now.

Answer 7

My fiance and I waited until he finished his schooling to get engaged (I was already done). For him, it was a matter of accomplishing something that he had been working on for an extended period of time before moving on to the next level of our relationship - he also admitted that he wants to be able to contribute equally financially, and finishing school would get him closer.

On the other hand, I have seen couples finish their undergraduate and graduate degrees while being married. For some people, having a spouse there to support them makes all the difference.

Answer 8

Some kids just aren't going to wait, however, I think it is best to at least have a Bachelor's Degree (if you need that for your chosen line of work) prior to getting married.
Having the education usually means that you have some skills which an employer will pay you for. That means you can contribute to the household.

Answer 9

It would be nice to complete education before marriage.. perhaps the ideal way.. but you can't always choose when love can come your way, unless you turn yourself into a sociopath.. which wouldn't be good for anyone. I'd go for education first because it'll prepare me for the real world, not that the one i'm going through isn't...but to get married means that i should be able to provide for my wife-to-be and for my kids-to-be..._

Answer 10

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