i live with my mum n 2 sisters 1 stil in school the other divorced mum does not work am the only one working so i ve assumed the role of a bread winner i feel burened i cant do anything for myself i dont earn enough am just confusedl
2007-10-31 01:46:39 · 8 answers · asked by tush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
some are burdened with the proportion they could bear , still any one who enjoys by putting stress on others is not a fair practise for them , be patient and wait for your turn all will be ok provided you carry the burden patiently to escape from the crowd
2007-10-31 02:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by david j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have let your mother and siblings take advantage of you. Why does your divorced sister who lives at home not work? Why does your sister still in school not have a part time job? Why does your mother not work? Does she collect some type of money from the government?
You may need to move out on your own and let them learn to support themselves.
2007-10-31 08:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by nevit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you could inform your mom and sister they need to find a way to support themselves, because you are overburdened?
This does not seem right or fair, and if you are still in school, i really do not know how you're doing it.
Time to have a family meeting, hon. If nothing else, move out get your own place, and they will have to find a way to earn money and pay their own bills.
take care of YOU.. no one else will... obviously.
2007-10-31 09:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
James 1:2
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. 4 Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. 5 If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. 6 But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind.
2007-10-31 08:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry me a river build a bridge then get over it. This is your family that you are talking about blood is thicker than water. I take care of my grandfather, uncle, mother, and son. Iam either a nurse, maid ,chef ,maid mother counsler who knoows i switch throughout the day, so trust me it could be worse.
2007-10-31 08:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by hoodwink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could move out, or just tell them how you feel. They are not your responsibility. Or if you don't want to move out, ask them who can work to get a job and help out.
2007-10-31 08:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by butterflykisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We teach people how to treat us. You need to unteach them. we must have family loyalty but also self respect. Lay down house rules and do something for yourself. LIVE, dont just exist.
2007-10-31 09:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're capable of getting a job, so are they. Suggest they do that and very very soon.
2007-10-31 10:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋