when me and my boyfreind have sex, at the beginning it hurts when hes first trying to get in. its a little dry at first but then when its not it still hurts. after a few minutes it stops but after sex theres a little burning sensation. what can it be?
2007-10-30 23:05:03 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
we've been having sex for the past 2 -3 months. daily
2007-10-30 23:07:58 · update #1
Hi,
Sexual intercourse is not merely a physical act with your partner. It is important that both of you are ready for it and enjoy it for fulfilment. It is, therefore, necessary that the mood be right and both partners be adequately aroused sexually. Arousal can be heightened by foreplay, which is an important part of intercourse.
In foreplay, the partners fondle and kiss each other, and stroke each other's genitals. This increases the sexual urges and also lubricates the sex organs to facilitate a pain-free intercourse. The initial insertion can be painful, and this discomfort may be reduced with the help of lubricating creams to make penetration easier and thus reduce the pain. Also, try not to be tense during the act. This will help to reduce the pain by a large extent. Relax and enjoy your married life.
Enjoy Life
2007-10-30 23:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you and your boyfriend have foreplay before you actually have sex? You might be too dry down there for him to penetrate you. If that's not the problem then you should buy something like KY or Astroglide (personal lubricants) to help him slide in. As for the burning, I would say it could be caused from the friction of him trying to enter without being wet. But see a doctor to rule out STDs.
2007-10-31 06:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess there is some problem with your lubricating system(i'm not a doctor).try doing it with a good lubricating condom.also have lots of foreplay to get the lubrication right.
dont use lubricants such as normal oils as they would affect the condom(if ur boyfriend is using one!!)
In most of the cases its the fear of the pain during intercourse that sparks this pain..hope you don't have it.if you have talk to your boyfriend and overcome it.
and do see a good doctor..that'll save you the guesswork..
have fun.
2007-10-31 06:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by Candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that you may have an infection going on but the only way to know for sure is to see your doctor for further evaluation of the situation to see what they think could be going on.
2007-10-31 06:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by sokokl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING BIG JUST APPLY SOME COCONUT OIL BEFORE STARTING
AND REMEMBER DON'T USE ANY CHEMICAL
LET OIL MANAGE YOUR INFECTION WITH AFFECTION
2007-10-31 06:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by AVTAAR M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because your not juiced up enough...try more 4play and maybe toys
2007-10-31 07:47:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋