5 months ago we were just casual gym acquiantances(the introduction,hi,goodbye and may be maybe a small chat).Now i've had a few good conversdations with her,and lately it seems like she is always trying to follow me and pass me by in every section of the gym and sometimes wilol even have a silly grin on her face.I ask herwhat's so funny,and she says nothing,but will continue to try to pass by. What's her deal?
2007-10-30 21:05:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Same old rubbish from you, time after time after boring time !! !
2007-10-31 21:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Norton G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got a monkey in your head Marvin S. Time to get a monkey wrench out and rid yourself of it.
You are letting the actions of another control your emotions. You don't have to do that you know. All it's going to do is cause a lot negative fallout.
It sounds like a man buying a brand new car. He buys a Saturn and do you know what happens? He starts to see them all over the place when before he never noticed them at all. But now that he has one he sees them all over. Heck he can even spot the darn car in a movie sitting in a theatre for crying out loud. So...what I think has happened here is that now you have had more than a hi/bye situation in your chats? You simple take note of her more often than you did before your conversations. That's all.
2007-10-30 22:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by the old dog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that she likes you but is too shy to say anything about it. Talk with her a little and get to know her some more and see what happens. Ask her why she grins when she does this "walking by" routine.
2007-10-30 21:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Richard B 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think she may have a crush on you, which may explain her behavior.
She may be insecure and shy if she walks by you with a silly grin. (I know that sometimes when I see a very attractive man, I often cannot help but to smile.)
2007-10-30 21:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by NecropolisXR 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must like you but be too shy to actually say anything.
Do you like her?
If you dont then perhaps you should stop acting friendly towards her and she will get the message.
If you do ask her if she wants to go out!!!
Either way put the poor girl out of her misery and you will be putting yourself out of it aswell!!
Good luck
x
2007-10-30 22:27:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess she really likes you!!! She wants to get your attention, so she'll pass by you and do anything for you to take notice of her if she has the opportunity..... Or maybe she only wants you to be her friend because she finds you interesting! why not try talking to her..... maybe next time she won't have to make a fool of herself whenever she sees you......
2007-10-30 21:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by batusawa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I second that. She likes you. She's trying to get you to notice more by giving more opportunity for appearances and interactions...
If you get the chance, clarify things, even if it might be being mean...at least it's honest.
2007-10-30 21:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Loreya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep avoiding her, act like your not interested in anything she has to say, when she tries to work out by you, act like your just finishing up and move along, just say "talk to you later", or "see yah later"...she will get the hint. if not, go to a different workout place for awhile.
2007-10-30 21:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by "Your Name" on my *SS 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she likes you dude and wants you to ask her out. it's that simple. either ask for her number to go out with her sometime or let her know you're not interested
2007-10-31 00:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by abesegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes talking with you and may even be attracted to you. You must decide if it's best to give her more attention, or less.
2007-10-30 21:08:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lovey 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋