How are some people able to stay so positive and keep such a good sense of humour?

Question

What is the trick to this?

I dont know if these people are just lucky and happy and loving their life so much or what, but I sure do feel left out .

I think maybe I am sounding a bit jealous now, arent I?

Answer 1

A lovely girlfriend full of wit.

Answer 2

I don't think anyone can stay positive and have a good sense of humor 365 days of the year but there are people that seem to feel that way more often then others. I really think it has to do with self confidence. Those who feel confident about themselves tend to not the little things get them down where as the less confident do. I know for myself, I've experenced some loss of loved ones and that has made me realize life is waaaay to short not to be positive and have a good sense of humor. Live life, smile and say "Hi" to at least 5 people a day, look into the eyes of people when you are talking to them, open the door at least once a day for a lady and try and not let little things get to you.

Answer 3

Manage your expectations

You own 100 % of every relationship
No such word as failure only feedback

Life is tough with occasional highs to keep you going ,you need something to play in your head to fight off negativity, there are loads available find your favourites and play them continuously

Answer 4

i don't know about being happy. but being positive is work sometimes concidering what you have to be positive about. i don't let my self ever to put my self down. like people say, "i suck' at this or that or just suck period".i just don't do this. it does affect you whether you know it or not. or any negative thinking. if you say bad things about your self you really start thinking that.

this goes for other things as well. like i know if if want to accomplish things in my life i will not tell my self it's too hard for me or i dont have tha patience for it. ect.. i just get the job done whether it's pain in the neck or not. that's what i'm talking about. your not always happy in the moment but in the end you will be.

hope this was helpful

Answer 5

its not about being jealous its about your karma if you want to be happy then you have to like yourself and by the sounds of it you don't at the moment so start slowly be nice to one person today you will feel good so will the other person and it carry on before you know it good times are coming your way it get 's you know where being a bitzh

Answer 6

im just laid back all the time. i cant take life too serious, its all a big joke. there are hard times in life, most of the time, but if you stay strong and positive, everything turns out fine. like right now, im super broke, so i found another way to pay my rent. its not like i can sit and cry about it. laugh about bad things that happen to you, unless its death, but then be happy for them, they dont have to deal with this.

Answer 7

You do whatever it takes to make yourself happy. That means leaving negative thoughts or feelings out of things that do not matter. Take pleasure in simple things like a beautiful day.

Answer 8

I used to think life sucked.

Then I realized that as long as I thought that it would be true. I changed my attitude. Guess what? The world became a better place.

Answer 9

Because we are Mature in mind and body and take life as it comes. Live for today because you never know if you will see tomorrow so what's the poin of worrying about it.

Answer 10

It's called being comfortable with your self and not looking back at regrets. Instead we decide to look to the future and the possibilities that await us. Yes I am one of those! Mistakes and bad things happen to everyone. It's how we choose to deal with it that sets us apart!!