im 16 and gay. this causes some problems in the dating area. Last bf i had cheated on me 6 weeks in. since then no boyfriend and i cant think of what to do. and yes ive look at school but all others are taken. i feel like a black sheep in a flock
2007-10-30 18:37:14 · 17 answers · asked by Just Lan 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Okay and breathe deeply here for a few minutes please. Now then, take your time, grow a little older(and hopefully more experienced) and just enjoy the youth you have right now. Yes, love IS out there for every person. So is yours. As difficult as it is, be patient. You WILL find love before you know it. Just be safe and don't rush yourself or anyone else.
2007-10-30 19:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by mangamaniaciam 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
AWWW! Don't feel that way. Most of the gay boys where i live date boys from out of town. If you don't want to do that then just wait for the right person to come along. Remember there is someone for everyone. Best of luck!
2007-10-31 01:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, slow down. You are 16! I can understand you wanting love. But you also need to realize that having a relationship at school is asking for trouble. Just relax and let it ride! Love will find you when you least expect it to!
2007-10-31 02:50:37 · answer #3 · answered by jeremybradley2562 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Im turning 22 in January and am still single too...
Dont rush things, enjoy the freedom of being single...
Dont stress or try to make it happen cos im sure you dont want just anyone...so take your time and wait for that special one to come around...
2007-10-31 03:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by BlueBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just life a learning experience. Most people go through things in life like that. That which won't kill you will make you stronger. You just need to learn from the mistakes and try not to make the same mistakes.
2007-10-31 02:37:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm looking also, but you would have to be 2 years older. Sorry. Don't give up. Some guys don't understand how to be faithful. Even at 35 they don't get it. Be patient and true to yourself and you'll find your love and have a great relationship.
Keep your head up sweety.
2007-10-31 01:52:44 · answer #6 · answered by Tommy Thompson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til ur 18 and then head off for the bars. Leave the ones in high school behind cos there's more pickings in the bars.
2007-10-31 02:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Eric 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww:( how sad he cheated on you.
Dont worry,someone will love you more and care about you.
Just wait you know,you're just 16.
Try the LGBT Center.There,they might have gays though.
Good luck mate
2007-10-31 03:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by Desiree Mu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got almost the same problem as mine...except for having an ex...
Hmm...it's sure hard...to look for a BF if ur a guy...juz keep waiting...you will eventually find one,don't worry...time will come!
the perfect guy will be there for you!
2007-10-31 03:37:30 · answer #9 · answered by c0c0nut90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are other places besides school to find a bf.
Try your local PFLAG or your nearest GBLT community center. Or a website:
2007-10-31 01:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋