My girlfriend wears bra size 32 D and has PERFECT boobs. I'm not saying this to sound shallow (im not weve been together 2 and a half years) but i love her big boobs! She wants to get a reduction bc she says they make her feel fat and shes not. shes 5'9" and 118 pounds. i wouldnt like her boobs if she got them reduced bc they wouldnt be natural anymore, and theyd be smaller and im afraid honestly it may mess up certain things in the bedroom for example she likes me to grab her boobs durring sex and if she reduced them id be turned off by that. what can i do to try to make her understand she doesnt need a reduction and i wouldnt like it bc shes not listening to me about it? Shes not having back pain or anything like that she just says "they are too big and make her feel fat"
2007-10-30 18:34:14 · 11 answers · asked by Maxwell 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
DONT LET HER
2007-10-30 20:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Sebastian 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't worry too much about it because her reason is only that they make her feel "fat" (though how someone with a 32 can be fat is beyond me, the 32 is the around the body measurement and that is pretty small). For any insurance to cover reduction surgery, at least 2 doctors have to tell the insurance company that the breasts are causing MEDICAL problems, such as back pain or other things like that. I'm guessing your girlfriend probably doesn't have the bucks to shell out when insurance won't cover it. And it can be difficult to get 2 docs to agree that it is medically necessary. My sis in law had "J" cups (6 cups sizes bigger than your gf) and it took over a year to get the insurance approved. She had such bad back pain that she was always hunched over. So.... I wouldn't worry about it too much, it probably isn't going to happen unless she has the money to pay for it herself.
2007-10-31 01:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is her body and if she wants to get a reduction that is her choice. Stop being a shallow *** and be supportive of her decision. Her boobs would still be natural. The only way they wouldn't be is if they were implants. Just because they would be smaller would not make them unnatural. Natural just means that they are the ones God gave her. You need to get over yourself. If you don't like it, then oh well. I am sure she could find a guy that would appreciate her for who she is not because of the size of her boobs.
2007-10-31 01:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No matter what, its her decision. You're just going to have to live with it. Support her no matter what... She's still going to be the gal that gets you going...
But... the hopeless romantic in me...
Billy Joel's "Just The Way You Are"
JUST THE WAY YOU ARE (Billy Joel)
Don't go changing, to try and please me
You never let me down before
Don't imagine you're too familiar
And I don't see you anymore
I wouldn't leave you in times of trouble
We never could have come this far
I took the good times, I'll take the bad times
I'll take you just the way you are
Don't go trying some new fashion
Don't change the color of your hair
You always have my unspoken passion
Although I might not seem to care
I don't want clever conversation
I never want to work that hard
I just want someone that I can talk to
I want you just the way you are.
I need to know that you will always be
The same old someone that I knew
What will it take 'till you believe in me
The way that I believe in you.
I said I love you, and that's forever
And this I promise from the heart
I could not love you any better
I love you just the way you are.
2007-10-31 01:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by icing_in_ak 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too bad. Deal with it.
Its HER body and if she wants a reduction for whatever reason she should go for it and have the SUPPORT of her b/f.
Are you dating her for her breasts or for HER? To say "id be turned off" indicates to me that you are dating her for her breasts.
Have you seen before/afters of breasts after a breast reduction? Perky! Squishy!
My fiance supported me throughout my breast reduction experience... that's what boyfriends do, SUPPORT their girl in their decision.
2007-10-31 02:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
big boobs are the dream of every girl u can tell her about ur feelings that u like her big boobs.it is blessing for her.a woman knows by her features so plz tell her to do stop her reduction
2007-10-31 02:08:21 · answer #6 · answered by G.H 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hey.
Well firstly its her body and she can do as she wishes.
What you can tell her is not to reduce and give her the reason you put on the question.
2007-10-31 01:47:29 · answer #7 · answered by Furqan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you are enjoying the big ones and small ones may not be so enjoyable.
2007-10-31 01:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Shouldn't you be worried about what she wants? and you do sound shallow.
2007-10-31 01:38:47 · answer #9 · answered by lilwestkid 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
She must be crazy.
First, she is dating you.
Second, she doesn't want her nice boobies.
Third, she is dating you.
2007-10-31 01:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't let her do it! If she's healthy, she should consider them a blessing. Enjoy them all you can!!!
2007-10-31 01:39:09 · answer #11 · answered by Dr. Poop 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋