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2007-10-30 16:21:33 · 11 answers · asked by Brendan C 1 in Health Men's Health

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The first time we did it, it hurt a little - and even then we had preparation. Now I've been doing it for over a month and it doesn't hurt at all. It's probably one of the most pleasurable things I've ever done and I've totally fallen in love with anal.

To all those who say it feels like a broom being shoved up your backside; clearly when you tried it you weren't turned on and hadn't had enough preparation. When done correctly it's fantastic.

2007-11-03 03:43:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Not a lot of good serious answers here, that's too bad. I'll do my best to answer this honestly and seriously for you.

In a nutshell, anal sex does not hurt. Actually it feels fantastic, that's why people do it.

Also, this bears mentioning, it has nothing to do with being straight or gay. Straight guys love this just as much as gay guys, they just don't like admitting it. I am straight and I LOVE to have my wife use a toy in my anus. It feels amazing. I have experimented with different types of toys and sizes and now have it narrowed down to the ones I really like. I am not always in the mood for anal, but when I am I so happy that I have a partner that enjoys pleasuring me in this way. It has really made my sex life fulfilling.

If you have never had anal sex, go slow and ALWAYS use a lot of lube. Water based lube with no scent or tatse. I suggest Astroglide. Start with toys that are "trainers" These are usually soft, small butt plugs or anal beads and are great for working up to something bigger. Though you might find that the trainers are what you will stick with most of the time.

Anal sex hurts if you resist it. If you clench you anus shut it will hurt to have something forced in. It will hurt to have something too big for you shoved in. If you have some health issue with your anus, like hemorroids, that will cause discomfort also. The main thing to remember is that to enjoy anal sex you need to be in the mood and you need to be turned on. Then it will feel great.

I hope this helps.

2007-11-02 17:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jay W 2 · 0 0

That seems to depend on whether you are straight or gay. Most gay guys seem to enjoy it, but women whose male partners try it on them nearly all say it hurts terribly. Only a brute will force an unwilling partner to do something painful! I suppose the difference is that men are just a little bigger there and can accomodate their partner's erection anally better than a woman can.

2007-10-31 12:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Maple 7 · 0 2

well the anal hole is not meant to be stretch therefore is can also bleed a lil. and plus wats the point if the guy will be the only one enjoying unless u don't wanna get to ur orgasm but well that on u.....good luck and make ur own decision!

2007-10-31 15:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by boii 2 · 0 1

Actually, it feels like you're crapping and it keeps comming back!

No, it doesn't hurt, but cleaning your ears out with a cutip, feels a lot better!

Go Figure!

2007-10-31 03:18:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Not at all, my a*%ss. Yes, it does. I'm not saying it won't still feel good, but it hurts at least a little. Unless you have a super huge %$#hole.

2007-11-01 22:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

geez, i hope you are asking seriously, because, people do not usually take these questions seriously .... there is a first time for everything people !

yes it can hurt. you cannot just cram into it and expect it to be pleasurable. use lubricant and massage it a little first and slowly work your way in

enjoy yourself

2007-10-31 08:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by mudmommy 3 · 2 0

i'd have to say it depends on the person

2007-11-01 16:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by bigdaddyiowa1984 1 · 0 0

Trying shoving a broom handle up your butt and let us know.

2007-10-31 06:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 3

If done correctly, not at all.

2007-11-01 18:11:37 · answer #10 · answered by QuestionsIndeed 2 · 1 1

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