Everyone help me with this one I've been married for 2 yrs and my wife now wants to be a stripper, I thinks it's a sick occupation for a married woman and mother of 2 small children.
2007-10-30 15:21:11 · 13 answers · asked by casey091971 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree a mother and stripper does not belong in the same sentence...I have a girlfriend thats a stripper has 6 kids now 4 daddys and 5 kids don't live w/ her she was strung out on coke and everything else and this happened all after she was married needless to say she is no longer married...Ya bad idea!!
BTW shes 28 now...what a life there!!
2007-10-30 15:26:42 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she wants to be a stripper. Does she have needs that are not being met, needs to be admired, to feel more attractive, or is it a money thing? Go with her to a club and talk to dancers that have been dancing for awhile. Let her hear it for herself, that it is not as glamorous and fun as it appears, this is all show. The money is good usually, but the psychological effects years later, the exposure to all walks of life, no one ever mentions, no matter how strong or stable a person you are, we are all human. It would be best for your children not to have a mother as a dancer, only because the lifestyle that usually follows. Children's well being and having a functional mother is more important than any amount of money. Good luck!
2007-10-30 15:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think she really wants to be a stripper in public. does she want to be a stripper in public?
if she does, dont stop her. BUT tell her, "if you want to be a stripper, make sure you're gonna be paid 1 MILLION DOLLARS a night. because that is what you are worth to me. if they cant pay you that much, i'll grab you on stage even when you are hanging or dangling on a pole and bring you home where you are valued like 1 MILLION dollars by your man and kids."
anyway, maybe she is not so serious about being a stripper. maybe she is just telling you that to tease you and make you tell her that she can only strip infront of you. :)
or... maybe she is telling you that to make you realize that the bacon your bringing home is not enough to suffice your family's needs.
whatever the reason is, good luck! i hope things work out between you and your wife, for the kids' sake.
2007-10-30 15:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm casey091971's wife. Yes I am a stripper, but he doesn't put in how he left me a year ago, and didn't work a year before that. I was the one working so the courts award everything with a bill to me. I lost my regular job, and had to pay bills and make sure the kids needs were met. The job saved our home, and everything else we worked hard for. Plus it fed and clothed our children. People need not judge. We've reconciled, but I have kept our family afloat with finaces, and hubby tells me to go to work and complains when I say I am going to quit.
2007-11-02 03:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she looking for some sort of validation? I'm trying to understand why someone married with a family would consider taking their clothes off for a bunch of drunk men.
Does she need the money or isn't she qualified to do something a bit more respectable?
2007-10-30 15:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by drewxjacobs 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you will file the divorce papers and file for custody of the kids, if she wants to sign them over she is free to be a whore.
Tell her the guys will drool over her and she can get any of them into bed or use them for money things etc,In the END however NONE of them will respect her and she will realize she is just a used human sex toy that will be flushed when her looks fail and younger prettier girls come along.
2007-10-30 15:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. The only person that should be seeing her naked is her husband. Married women have no place in a strip club dancing, AND A MOTHER...she shouild really be ashamed!!! My husband wants to know if she danced before or if this is just a new fantasy thing she has???
2007-10-30 15:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your absolutly right- from your perspective..
This could be a good thing. If she truly has enough Self confidence to make good money in this occupation, go for it. Trust has to be there though. Because obviously this profession gets alot of attention for females. Give it a try, and who knows. It could spicen things up a bit for the both of ya. :)
Good luck
2007-10-30 15:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by big_gurlz_dont_cry27 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In a past life I knew many peelers. The one thing they have in common is hatred of men. The same goes for hookers.
Peelers and hookers are one in the same. Both sell their bodies for money. What they don't realize is, they lose their soul for 30 shekels of silver.
2007-10-30 15:35:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck! you got a long row to hoe my freind but at least you wont have much trouble getting custody of your children.
2007-10-31 01:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋