The person you loved to date a long time ago change?
2007-10-30 14:45:27 · 11 answers · asked by Kazuma 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
The way I see it is that you don't notice all of the bad things when you start to date, it is mostly after marriage of a long time you see the bad things and it seems like they changed
2007-10-30 14:46:54 · update #1
Well me and my guy changed after we were together for a while. We changed for the better though. I think we made each other a better person. I can't say the same for everybody else.
2007-10-30 14:53:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are right at first all you see is what you want and then after a while sometimes even the sound of them breathing becomes too much to handle, but if you hang in there long enough this too will pass and put a little love in your life and you can fall in love all over again. Love takes a lot of work. You have to keep putting something in to it to get something out of it much like a candy machine...
2007-10-31 11:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by teresa m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only problem i have is my ol' lady is sicker than when i first dated her.
she is a very strong person.. i'm glad she's got the sense of humor she had when i fell for her long ago.
i'm so damned sorry she's sick now.... what a drag...
but she is still goofier than ever... god i will hate life if i lose her.. i kid you not.
:(
now don't think she's without imperfections.. she's crazy.. weird.. a pain in the butt... whacky.. but smart... worrywart though.. nags me about my bad habits... (but she did that from the start... ) she makes me eat vegetables! (or no beer! WAH!) and always fusses over me... she burps... has giggle fits.. gets goofy... likes to gripe... (got that from her grandparents...) so on... but she was like that from the moment we first talked on the phone...
she warned me all about this... said she was a serious pain in the a55! she was right.. she kidded me not!
also.. she takes too long to eat and wastes most of her food.. so taking her out to dinner.. is kinda strange... you should see how the staff treats her.. "oh no it's miss play in my food" she does that too!
lmfao!
she has things i called glitches... (i'm not without my own believe me! really i also kid you not again...) but now days i look at her things i used to get irritated with and now i cherish them half if not most of the time.
:D
that's her... and that's what i fell in love with.
2007-10-30 21:49:27 · answer #3 · answered by dramatic p-dawg 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everyone changes sweetie. We all grow in different directions. Find new interests, find new hobbies and activities. Especially after kids come along. My life slowed way down after that. Its all in your perception of what you want your life to be. You have to make it the way you want it.
2007-10-30 23:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Everybody changes. It's not just the other person.
2007-10-30 21:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by 1proudcloud 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It does happen however, not everyone changes. Is that why you're depressed today?
I hope you find some cheer soon mate.
Btw, Happy Halloween!! ((hugs))
2007-10-31 09:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They never did change according to Dr. Laura.
2007-10-30 22:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Viola G. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's never changed as long as I've known her.
2007-10-30 21:47:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes is a totally different person.
2007-10-30 22:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
she changed as soon as i said i do
2007-10-30 21:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by never_rested 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋