when someone date me and stood me up by sending sms saying needing to help a friend and not even by a call, i am really pissed off...i feel insulted and unimportant and reply say your friend is more important...am i justified to feel this way? especially this guy is claim to pursuing me..
I call him and he giving me cold answer...why is that so?
2007-10-30 14:42:05 · 5 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You are justified in not accepting his excuses. But not in feeling unimportant.
At least he let you know. Some guys simply don't turn up.
If he wishes to pursue you, he'll have to try harder, won't he? A LOT harder .....
2007-10-30 15:00:26 · answer #1 · answered by bluebell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is JUSTIFIED that you are angry, but don't take HIS actions as a statement about your importance. He stood you up - that is an issue with HIM, not YOU.
As for why he is not answering your calls - it could be a million and one things or just the simple fact that he is just not someone who has enough respect to be honest.
You deserve better.
2007-10-30 21:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Green Eyed Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't take a rude and inconsiderate person's behavior to heart. His priorities are not appropriate.
2007-10-30 23:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Freckles... 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you clearly need an upgrade and drop this little boy off
on his mommy's porch.
2007-10-30 21:54:33 · answer #4 · answered by JOHN 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling him. Walk on, what you got they can't feel it.
2007-10-30 21:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Js_5 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋