This guy (we are not an item yet) suppose to date on last night but later on he sms me claim that he need to help a friend to do something (say that is urgent) and change our date to another day. He didnt even bother to call to explain which is something i find rather insult..
I call him later, he is rather cold in his voice and doesnt explain much and keep conversation very brief...
I feel rather hurt, that he didnt even bother to call and i think he may only be finding excuse, friend is more important to break date with me or worse he had a better date come along.. I cant trust him...
If someone is interested in you, they wouldnt care less for your feeling right?
2007-10-30 14:25:30 · 2 answers · asked by wishingforpeace 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
If you can't trust him, MOVE ON. When a guy is really interested, he will pursue you. If you forget about him, you might be more interesting to him. But calling him or expecting anything from him will only make him more cold and distant. The best thing you can do is go on with your life expecting bigger and better things.
If he comes back and follows you around like a puppy, he MIGHT be worth another chance. But only if he does what YOU want. To men, the most attractive women are the ones they can't have (or at least have to work really hard to get a chance with.)
Breaking dates is not what you want. You deserve better than that. That's the attitude you must exude. So blow him off.
2007-10-30 14:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by sightlines 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough to say, but it sounds like you are emotionally invested in a relationship which does not exist. Slow down. Don't be in such a hurry. Give him a chance with a date. If he breaks it again, then that is suspect. It is not unreasonable that something did come up. It's just asking a lot of you if something else comes up with no explanation. Then it's up to you to guess whether or not this is worth pursuing.
2007-10-30 21:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋