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Question

Me and my wife have been married for five years now whe are both yuong in are twienties and here is my problem whe just recently moved to florida and we live with my parents. In this house there is seven people so I'm talkin no alone time plus whe have a kid.Let my explaine more after about the third year of married my wife sex drive has left I,m talkin once a month maybe twice if I'm lucky.Whe have talk sbout or problems things change for a day or two thin back to normal.I have tried everything ax,bod,brute,fancy motels everthing but nothing works.So toninght and now she has a job so it down to once every two months because she is tired.Back to what I was saying tonight no one home my parents took the kid did whe do antything know because now she didnt have to wait to use the computer because everyone was gone she stayed on myspace the whole time!!! Is she cheating is it me Help PLEASE!!!!!!!

Answer 1

I don't think she is necessarily cheating on you... you never mentioned how old your kid is.. alot of times a womans sex drive goes down hill after child birth. I know this from experience. Also...how much is the sex about her? alot of men in your age group is.. wham bam thank you mam... also speaking from experience... sometimes persistenance and alot of patience from the guy will go along ways ... it can take up to an hour of foreplay to even get her in the mood..

Answer 2

All women lose their sex drive especially after kids. But it's a phase and it'll pass. You just have to be patient. I highly doubt she's cheating.

Answer 3

im not the one to give you an answer, nor is anyone on yahoo answers. if i were you, i would talk to you wife and try to fix things. obviously somethings not right. just talk.

Answer 4

You and your wife need to take a vacation together, sometime.

Answer 5

can't say she is cheating or not, but she definitely has different priorities