what do u do when you dont know where your life is going. im 18 and just started college as a freshman. i thought i had things figured out wehn i started, what my major is and all, but now i feel as if i have no direction. I mean i still am majoring in what i was to begin with, but dont know if thats the answer. i feel like i want to move to a different state (i live with my parents to save money, which is fine.) but i dont think that is the answer either. its like i cannot be happy anymore. I'm bored with everything about life. the thing is , im not a hard person to please, so i dont know what is wrong. any suggestions what to do???
2007-10-30 14:10:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I have a suggestion, God maybe trying to tell you something, if you really have no feelings on what you want to do in life just slow down and let it come. You may be in for a suprise , who knows what life will bring, if you have no real passion yet just do your classes and let life come to you. You will find what you are looking for. God may have a totally different life you than most people have. You just never know, hang in there though and life unfold before you. It might be a pleasant suprise!!
2007-11-02 16:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by victor 7707 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you remain unsure of what path to follow, why don't you speak to a guidance counselor? You can always change your major if you're not sure what interests you.
\It sounds like you have more than one thing going on.
Why so much uncertainty? Has anything happened since you entered school? How are your grades? Sometimes when we do not do well in something, it shakes our confidence in ourselves. If that is the case, just go with it, that's life. You can't expect to get an "A" in everything.
Your feelings have really "snowballed" & that can be very overwhelming. Just do the best work you can, & learn to take breaks & don't be so hard on yourself. Learning can be fun & exciting, try not to let it ruin your life.
Good Luck,
Phyllis G.
2007-10-30 14:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by Phyllis G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When most students starter collage their not sure what they what that is normal. Your ready for change. Just think things through all the way, look at how it will affect every one. Look on the Internet about other states and see what stories your heart and go from there, it will cost some money to move. If your heart is in it and you've prayed about it and asked God what he wants you to do follow what his in your heart.
2007-10-30 14:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Linn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋