Strange Phone Call?

Question

Today while I was at work my cell phone rang. It was a private number. A women asked me if I called her home earlier because my number was on her caller id. I told her no I did not call her. She asked me my name and I promptly asked her name in return. Since I did not call her I did not see the point in giving my name. She told me her name is "Tanya". I then gave her an apology and told her that if I called her by accident i'm sorry but no I did not mean to call her. Then she asked me if I knew...and said my husbands name. I simply said yes and she said okay then bye.

WHAT THE HELL!!

I called him immediately asking him who is Tanya. He said he has no idea. I told him I had to go because I was pissed. He called back a little later saying that maybe it was his daughter's Mother playing games because it's possible she found out we just got married and wants to start some mess. We have been through this before so i'm not feeling very secure. What do you think!

Yes he has cheated on me before and did not admit it until I pushed the proof in his face.

So lets re-cap. She called from a private number so I cannot call her back.

Answer 1

When you say "been through this before" do you mean he cheated?

If so, you know that once a cheater always a cheater.

I am sorry you have that sinking feeling in your stomach. Time to sit down and confront your husband. Something isn't right.

Answer 2

Hmmm. It certainly does sound fishy. I must say though...DO NOT PUT ANYTHING PAST THE EXES! When my hubby and I first began living together we started receiving phone calls from men asking for his exwife by name and laughing and hanging up on us. One of the men calling was ONE of the men she had cheated on my hubby with when they were married. It would possibly make sense but the phone number had been changed to a nonpublished number in my name. She was behind it and did it just to get under my skin. If his ex is known for pulling stunts like this then he may actually be telling the truth....HOWEVER, you stated that you guys have been through this before. What exactly have you guys been through? Cheating? If so then I would become the best d@mn private investigator on earth and I would find out what hubby may be up to. Ya know? If he has cheated before then he may do it again. Just keep quite about the incident and make him think you have forgotten about it and start snooping until you find out one way or another about this Tanya person. If he is messing around then he will eventually screw up. If he isn't then it is time to deal with the prying ex and put her in her place. Good Luck!

Answer 3

I would think that he is cheating and Tanya wanted you to know. I would never forgive for cheating. Since you already have I hope that you do not do it again if you find out that this is the case. You can get an address for a phone number if it is a land line on the web. Do some investigating and find out the truth. I hope that I am wrong.

Answer 4

I think you had every right to say more than a simple yes. You should have told her that he is your husband. Someone is trying to start trouble for your marriage or they would not have called private. I wouldn't even answer a private call. It's never anything good. If you get another call, just tell her how it is. No matter who she is or what the deal is, he is YOUR husband. Try to give him the benefit of the doubt. Of course, you will feel insecure if you feel like maybe, you can't trust him. I think it's all games someone is playing, but be leery just in case. Good luck!

Answer 5

That's very strange that they don't block their number when they call you. If it's everday why don't you tell your to change your phone number? I'd call the police and see what you can do. Becareful, you never know this person may be stalking you in real life. Be aware of your surroundings cause you never know. I used to get phonecalls like that too this guy would call at first he never talked and then he would say gross things but it eventually it stopped. Rogers wireless? I'm with rogers and i live in Canada. If you're from Canada and your with bell tell your parents to subscribe to call block. It's *66 and you can block the person from calling you.

Answer 6

Cheaters are liars. Of course he is going to deny it. If he did it before he will continue to do it. I guess it is like a drug for some people.
You can either take him back or let him go. He will always cheat.
Do what you need to do
Keep your head up, you are fine and will get through this, no matter what you decide to do.
Peace

Answer 7

I think if he's done this before, and out of the blue this happens, then perhaps he didn't learn his lesson the first time.
I'd do a little more investigating in his computer, cell, etc. I hate snooping, but sometimes if you can't get the truth from that person, and in your gut you know the truth...you have to.
I'm leaning towards..."Oops, I did it again". Sorry.

Answer 8

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Thats a sticky situation.
He could be telling the truth, but at the same time he could be lying cause in the past he's been unfaithful. Thats already a mess of stress your gonna put through yourself. I guess keep an eye on him, if you catch him- dump him

Answer 9

Don't be a fool he's cheating on you for sure. Just because he married you don't mean ****. You can find out buy calling this chick and asking her some questions about him. This girl could be playing games , but i doubt it. If she knows personal things about your man you know he's cheating.

Answer 10

She didn't get your number from her caller ID, she got it from your husband and she's trying to start crap. She's obviously involved with him and going in a round about way to get him busted so you'll dump him and she can have him.