He hurt me so badly...I constantly tried to talk to him about what happened, but he wanted nothing to do with me. Then he tried to be friends with me, but then stopped altogether. I caught him in several lies, most likely because he was ashamed. One day he could not live w/o me, and then he wanted nothing to do with me. If anyone knew what he did to me and what I went through, I just dont have it in me to say it anymore. I have not contacted him on over 3 months. He never talked to me, he ended it in an email while I was in the hospital. Can someone please help me how to move on from what happened? Thanks.
2007-10-30 13:48:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
TIME and stay positive. Dont resort to alcohol or drugs, because that'll lead to things being worse. Im sorry to hear about your situation, but TIME is so essential. Its the only thing that can heal something like this, wouldnt you agree? I mean you cant just up and forget somebody... so without seeing him, and talking to him.... will hopefully lead to not thinking of him. Than you'll realize that you can live without him and be able to move on.
Take up a hobby if you dont already have one. ( disc-golf, chess, sewing, skating, play an instrument, work out, go jogging)
Try and keep your mind busy and stay healthy... that way before you know it... that "problem" you have is gone.
nights are usually the hardest as well, especially as you lay in bed to try and sleep. So grab a funny dvd, or read a book until you crash out. Listen to some POSITIVE music, no sappy love songs missing your ex.
most importantly.. live your life and be happy. LEARN from your experiences.
2007-10-30 20:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just avoid contact altogether , this is the first thing you need to do immediately. He will always play head games with you because he wants you hanging on a string .Change your phone # , email etc. This is therapy for you and seek counseling.This person will sink you emotionally like the Titanic. Stay away from that sinking ship. Imagine he is the Titanic, you already know that the Titanic is going to sink. So why buy a ticket to a sinking ship. The man is sinking himself because he is just using you.Abusing you emotionally , mentally and physically and also spiritually.
Keep yourself busy , go to movies alone or with a girlfriend. Just go places , a new love will come your way.
2007-10-31 11:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, i dont think there is any specific way to get over an ex. Its harder then you think. I think you need time to heal. I would try to do more interesting things to get him off your mind. Try starting something knew in your life, a new hobby or excersizing. It could help boost your confidence and it will take him off your mind. I would try to stay busy day to day.
2007-10-30 22:17:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to realize that you are a beautiful, worth while person who deserves nothing less than the best a man can give.
Accept this fact THEN find the man!
Good Luck.
2007-10-30 21:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to quit dwelling on what happened and start thinking about yourself and what makes you happy. counseling would really help if you can find the right counselor.
2007-10-30 20:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your focus to something happy.
2007-10-30 20:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋