Do getting married count anymore or is is it ok just to have a boyfriend that you have children by?

Question

many females brag that the boyfriend love them with all their heart but wont marry. . Many have children and women say they are the luckiest women on the planet because their boyfriend have given their all and all
Excluding those couples who choose not to marry. Thats their choice.

all those who choose not to marry i excluded/ Only those who beleve thy have the best because the boyfriend dont want to marry. Ththose are the women my question refer to.

sorry i submitted my questions without taking out the typographical errors . I appreciate the answers.

Answer 1

If their boyfriends dont' want to marry them, they are either lazy, or dont love them as much as they think they do.

Answer 2

Yikes! Your spelling and grammar are atrocious! But since this isn't a classroom, let me try to answer your question. I don't know who all these women are who claim to be so lucky, but there is no way I would have a baby without my husband. I was a single mom for 10 yrs and it was a struggle every day! Women who have babies without marrying the guy do not hold a high opinion of themselves and the guys that are fathering all these children are nothing more than arrogant, good for nothing, irresponsible, ignorant, selfish manwhores.

Answer 3

John I think women who let some guy knock them up and not get married are really stupid . One of the biggest problems today is no FATHERS in the family . Even worse is when 2-6 women all get pregnant by the same idiot . Wonder where their brain is if they know some guy has a bunch of other kids by a bunch of other women . I can figure the Man out he is all PENIS and NO BRAINS but I use to think WOMEN had some brains till this MY BABIES DADDY garbage started.

Answer 4

i think that having a bf and having children with them but not marrying is ok depending on the situation.
i have cousins who got impregnated by their bfs but did not marry. for quite a while they lived in together but decided to part ways because of differences. and my female cousins went out on dates again and had new bfs and got impregnated again but did not marry. in short, they were living their life to the fullest.
however, their actions have impact on the emotions and identity and moral values of their kids.
while some kids dont have to go through analyzing who among the guys their mothers are dating are their real father, my nieces and nephew had to go through identifying, analyzing, figuring out, much reflection and contemplation in their very young age about the situation they are in with their parents. good thing those kids are bright and good kids.
for me, the issue why they dont marry is because they are afraid of a longterm commitment and responsibility. they are afraid of what might happen if things dont work out soon and they get stucked with the same person.
but the thing is nothing is for free (except unconditional love). everything has consequence and chain reaction.

Answer 5

I don't know, i have never been in this situation, i am married. People do accuse me of being old fashioned though! Personally, i believe in the sanctitiy of marriage and enjoy giving the foundation and sense of permanency to my children. But that is not to say couples who don't marry don't have that.

Answer 6

Isn't there enough little bastards running around in this world we don't need anymore. The government is getting fed up with women who are having baby after baby. Don't do that to your kids give them a real last name.

Answer 7

I don't believe in having a child until you are married. I also don't think anyone should get married until they are 30 years old.

Answer 8

people who do not want to marry are afraid to commit. why have a family with someone who will not commit? it's foolish.