i had a still birth 4 yrs ago and i cant get pregnant what could be the problem?

Question

i have had irregular periods sometimes as much as 51 days in between them ,pain during sex, depression, i have had paps come back abnormal be to my obgyn a bunch of times but he says im ovulating.get him checked but i was with the babys daddy for almost 3 yrs and still didnt get pregnant now im with someone new.i was just put on ortho tri cylcen and celexa for depression.i had a lab come back high blood sugar testing for it again will know in a week.im a pretty healthy girl have been my whole life until i got pregnant i was right on time never irregular and i am confused if the dr says im fine but havent been pregnant after 4 almost 5 yrs of unprotected sex then something must be wrong right

i just started depression meds.

ok maybe i should explain in a little deeper detail.i have pains in (i guess) around my ovaries a lot during the month before and after i start my period.during sex...i have to get him to stop that how bad those pains are. i have to be tested for diabetes. i was told some could be symtoms of p.c.o.s so i researched it online. ovarian cancer runs in the family.im the same age my mother was wen she found out she had it.my grandmother died of it becuase it was never detected until it was too late. they never found out why i lost my baby. so we arent real sure.i dont know what to think i have an appoinment. but i want more opinoins

Answer 1

It sounds like you might need to go a specialist...
You might have some scar tissue left from your previous pregnancy...
You might need to have a talk with a counselor about your depression, your anti-depressant could be affecting your cycle as well.

Answer 2

Maybe it's just bad luck. Doctors usually know what they're talking about, but if you're not sure, you could always get a second opinion from another doctor. That's what I would do if I really had a concern.