I am well educated and work with many white and asians or in school.
But they just don't notice me.
But when ANY black guys see me they are always trying to get my number and are very into me and my shape. I am curvy.
I know it is not education, it is true what they say that black men like thick and white men like thick.
Oh, and on the other hand my ditzy black friend (who is a size 0) attracts nothing but white guys.
2007-10-30 12:22:43 · 22 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
Blacks are generally quicker and more "outgoing" to pick up or hit on any woman, but they prefer curvy women for the most part because there is just more there. Some Asians and whites can be intimidated by this because of their insecurities which may be a reflection of their demasculinity.
2007-10-30 12:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 7⤋
Well, I think in general black males like a woman with shape whereas white and Asian men aren't known for that
2007-10-30 13:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The guys you work with and/or go to school with see you as an equal.
From my experience Black and Latin guys love educated curvy ladies. They can tell of course by your apperance and by how you carry yourself. White guys and Asians on the other hand can't handle educated curvy ladies. They get intimidated. They think that we will just use them or overpower them. They want to impress someone, and if you're educated it's kinda hard to impress you, they need someone they can boss around and overpower in the bedroom.
They are sissy's anyways...that's what I have experienced. So relax guys and don't get all hurt.
If you want them to notice you why don't you approach them? Men love that...it shows your confidence. It's sexy.
2007-10-30 12:34:13 · answer #3 · answered by shhhh_j 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I understand you because I have it the other way around. White and Asian men seem to find me attractive and are always asking for my number. They check me out and Hispanic guys don't. I'm Hispanic. My mom says is because I'm thin. Hispanic and black guys like thick girls and white men and Asian men tend to like thin girls.
2007-10-30 12:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I'm black and I attract white guys too, but I'm not a size O, but a size 3. I don't think size has anything to do with it. I think it has to do with your personality or your vibe. You might come off standoff-ish to them, so they might not wnat to talk to you. But maybe you should talk to them for a change. I don't know how to help you, maybve you should ask your freind, but don't act ditzy like her.
2016-04-11 03:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few Asian men are attracted to Black females. There are some whites who like black women, but they will never admit to it. Why is it so important to attract a particular race? Find a guy who treats you right and live life to the fullest.
2007-10-30 12:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Kim 5 · 8⤊ 3⤋
It seems ALOT of black men like bigger girls, But I also know a few white guys, actually, the best looking white guys I know, that like the curvy girls over the skinny minnies. Maybe youre just in the wrong place
2007-10-30 12:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by LifeIsPeachy 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Do you wish to get with a white or Asian man or are you just complaining???
2007-10-30 12:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by lusciousdivine77 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm thick and men of all races approach me. It could be the area you live in because I noticed that when I'm visiting a different state white men don't try to talk to me.
2007-10-30 12:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by {*Kiterya A.k.A Ms Caramel*} 5 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Most white men like slim women.
2007-10-30 12:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by It must be said 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Maybe umm you just ehhhh. Sorry I got nothing. Thats just how it is. You attract something you always don't want or like.
2007-10-30 12:26:41 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋