Just thought I'd ask.
2007-10-30 12:10:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Celebrities
Hey, I'm in love with someone more than 20 years older !
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Ahem, as in Jared Leto.
He's awesome.
And really, who cares what they say ??? Age is just a number, and since when did a number be so judgemental. Right ?
Doesn't matter if it's gross or stupid or effed up. It's really nothing, right? Just look at Anna Nicole Smith and that old guy.
2007-10-30 12:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by love me some leto™ [Echelon] 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on your age a lot.
If you're 25 and the guy 45... well that's not much of a problem.
Do you have so much in common? It might be a problem due to the generational gap, can you share the same activities, taste for music, cinema, books....
it also might not be a problem now, but it might be a problem when you're 40 and perfect and he is 60 and growing old rapidly. that can cause many conflicts later on... jealousy and fears for the man. but with the proper care and attitude, it might be a good relationship, a mature man is attractive in many ways for a younger woman.
2007-10-30 12:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your age.
21 years is much different if say, you are talking about an 18 yr old and a 39 yr old as opposed to a 40 yr old and a 61 yr old.
i don't think it's ever crazy to be in love with anyone, you can't help your feelings. but if you are very young, there really is a world of difference in what you could possible have in common besides sex and funny movies.
2007-10-30 12:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by pickle_tkl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you're underage, I wouldn't say it's "crazed", but potentially unsafe.
However, I do believe age is really just a number, and if you love someone, you shouldn't let it get in the way.
2007-10-30 12:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by evanwhisper17 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not uncommon for young women to be infatuated with older guys, because they see them as mature and able to provide things that their young boyfriends are unable to give them. ....hence, the word "sugardaddy" comes into play.
As for marrying someone 21 yrs older than yourself, that could be a BIG MISTAKE..........if you're now 21, he's 42, and when you become his age, he will then be 63 and ready for retirement. You will be at your prime. Are you willing to be his nurse at that time? who can say what shape he will be in then!
Everything seems to be rosy now, but somewhere down the line, that rosebush might become a briar patch.
2007-10-30 12:18:54 · answer #5 · answered by sugarbee 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how old you are. If you're in your late twenties or older then you probably know you really love them, otherwise younger people may not realize what actual love is and if they can actually spend the rest of their life with him/her.
2007-10-30 12:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! My grandfather was 20 years older than my grandmother.
My hubby is 10 years and several months older than me. My Dad was a lot older than my mother {stepmom}. She was 14 years older than me.
2007-10-30 12:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's crazed or crazy. To each his (or her) own and all that good stuff. I think it's kinda perverse if either party is under "legal" age.
2007-10-30 12:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jayna 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no my bff married someone that was 17yrs older
just make sure the younger is of age
2007-10-30 12:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by ☆MeLissa Lynn☆ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's crazy. If the woman is the older one.
Because men are pigs. I am a well trained pig!
2007-10-30 12:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋