Have you and why??
2007-10-30 11:20:02 · 11 answers · asked by To be honest 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Contrary to filthy_c.. remark, I am being completely honest and yes my wife reads my posts. I did cheat on my wife ONCE, this was 10 years ago. Why?, well like most men, I needed more intimacy in my marriage. I now know that I should of worked on our problem, but I took the easy way out and cheated instead. Long story short, my wife found out about the affair, she forgave me my MISTAKE (it really was a huge mistake), we talked about my needs and then we talked about her needs and we found our solution.
I am REALLY sorry that I cheated, I am not saying this because I know that my wife might read this, but because even though my wife has forgiven me and I have earned her trust back, I have deeply hurt the person I love most in the world and there is NOTHING I can do to take it back!
2007-10-30 12:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by Archangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I for one can truly say I cheated on my wife. We have been together since the summer of 94 and after a while, the intimacy and sex wasn't there. We had kids which made the frustration worse and I regret ever doing it. I fessed up and she forgave me but there is a certain level of trust that isn't there anymore. I am OK with this because it's something I decided to live with and everyday of my life I try to win her heart and trust back little by little. She understood that I felt my needs sexually weren't being met. We sought counseling and worked it out...I am a very lucky man because I still love my wife immensely.
2007-10-30 19:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Submariner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through a second divorce but I never cheated on any of my wives. Stayed to busy to think of such things.
2007-10-30 18:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you forget - these answers follow people around like toilet paper on a shoe.
i am suspecting you won't get too many guys blurting out - "yes, i cheated on my wife because i wanted more sex! and it was great!" or anything even close to that here.
don't expect perfect candor with an incriminating question - wives read their husband's responses, remember...
2007-10-30 18:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by filthy_crumb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cheated because I knew she had betrayed me. My wounds were so deep that I would never let anyone know I was married. I suspected she even slept with my step dad and 2 brothers.
It was awful. because that is not who I am today. It's been almost 9 years since we split...Amen
2007-10-30 18:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by JOHN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did cause our sex life was boring. I did the talking, begging, and, pleading. I told her I wasn't happy and she did nothing to try and improve it. I got my tongue peirced, I bought videos and magazines, and she refused to try and make it better. So, when the opportunity arose, I went for it. I am not proud of what I had did, not by a long shot.
2007-10-30 18:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by scicodawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly im not married anymore, which that was one of the reasons. i dont make any excuses for it, but I think guys find it intriguing to have something there not suppose to. Its the excitement of something new and the thought of possibly getting caught. Thats just my thought
2007-10-30 18:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Coopdawgg 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband has never cheated on me and I haven't cheated on him.
2007-10-30 18:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
my husband has cheated on me because i wasnt giving it up because he has hurt me so much that im totally disgusted with him
2007-10-30 19:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine36 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I fell in love.
2007-10-30 18:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋