what do you think?
2007-10-30 09:15:40 · 52 answers · asked by Twilight 6 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
oh yes
you can have great sex with a girl fiend you do not love ,but like all the same.
sex and love are separate concepts that often can be together ,but just as often are not .
2007-10-30 21:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but I'm also someone who doesn't believe in "true love." I'm just realistic. Not romantic or stuck in a movie mentality.
There can be something exciting about recreational or spontaneous sex (as long as it's safe). As long as I find someone hot, sexually attractive and good at what he does, the sex can be very good.
I remember reading somewhere that a lot of women fantasize about having sex with a stranger.
But when you're in love, I'm sure sex is great too...But it's not a requirement.
2007-10-31 18:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there wasn't, then the World's oldest profession would be out of a job.
I think that for men it is easier to have good sex without love. Sex for women is more of an emotional outlet as it is an orgasmic outlet. That's probably why they want to talk and cuddle more after sex.
I think it CAN be for some women but it'll be in the minority.
GOOD question. Starworthy !!
2007-10-30 09:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Dan Bueno 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer can be better clarified if you ask your question the other way round...
Can there be True Love without Good Sex?
What's your answer? Can you continue to offer true love to a partner who you cannot have good sex with?? (I do not think you are asking about platonic love between friends or the brother-sister kind of love here)
2007-10-30 22:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i will echo the sentiments of majority. Yes, one can have good sex without love. Though better if love is the added factor.
What consitutes good sex? What consitutes love?
As long as people are not getting used and are not dillusioned about the situation, then is things should all work out well.
2007-10-30 09:45:07 · answer #5 · answered by Elise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can have good sex and feel passionately about someone without loving them...but you can only treat your body separately from yourself for so long before you get bored or start feeling the void.
It can be good, but won't be too great.
2007-10-30 10:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Lioness 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have had GREAT sex without love, and been in love without great sex the question is which is most important to you.
2007-10-30 09:23:05 · answer #7 · answered by hisbaby1967 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is always good for the species is genetically pre programed for that sensation. If you can find true love then it is ten times better. But how can you be certain it is true if you don't try first?
Spartawo...
2007-10-30 09:23:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Undoubtedly. I've had GREAT sex...where the physical connection was wonderful....mutually without any emotional attachment. No problem.
People who need love for good sex are borderline frigid and morally conditioned (brainwashed).
All that said, the BEST sex is great sex with someone you love.
2007-10-30 09:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by jimvalentinojr 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, there can be good sex without true love. It's just that with true love being so elusive, the combination of the two is just awesome and seldom found.
2007-10-30 09:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Slick98 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋