But this guy deeply cleans himself after every sex we have, it's crazy how he can't let go sometime and relax in bed a little.
Now when we have sex on Thursdays, he would go and get clean but not shower, now he takes shower saying it because Friday he have to go to the Mosque and have to be clean. Well it's thursday not friday yet.
I am not a religious person but i am a spritual person, I let him know that, he said if he will have to marry me I will have to pray. Well I grew up with a Muslim parent, I thought well i can try to pray if we end up getting married, but I won't pray to the extreme.
I let him know how i feel, he said we might not get alone on the cleaning part because he is religious. he is very religious and he is very traditional but he is trying not to be traditional because i am not that tradition about anything really. I rather not go by the book all the time&relax and enjoy life like it's.
He even smells his hand one day&thought i didn't see what he did.
2007-10-30 08:25:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
one day we were have sex and there we white thing coming out, i have no control over it and he said "what is that?" i was short and ambarrase.
I told him why he act like he doean't know what is it, he said because none of this exes had that before.
Now i feel like a dirty person.
2007-10-30 08:26:46 · update #1
i am 23y and he 26 years old
2007-10-30 08:36:40 · update #2
If he's so religious,he shouldn't be having sex at all.Religion calls it fornication.Seriously,I think he's a little obsessive(OCD).You need to both sit down and have a long talk on your differences now,before it's too late.Good luck.
2007-10-30 08:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Lety 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some seriously scary traditions are wrapped in the Muslim faith. Religion comes first and you come somewhere after. You do know that there are guys out there who would put you and your needs/feelings first, don't you??
They just won't be Muslim.
It seems Muslim men are allowed to do whatever they want and the women are allowed to do ...what the men tell them.
Apparently this guy you're with is like all the rest of that culture. You can be replaced. Displease or disagree with him and find out just how fast it happens.
If you decide to stay, know that he will get his way, always, in your relationship. His feelings aren't just the only ones that matter, they're the only ones, period.
2007-10-30 08:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by M☺lly, RN 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I shouldn't even touch this one, not understanding the muslim culture. All I know is, it sounds like you are just a sexual object to him, for his pleasure. I would recommend you look elsewhere, end the relationship before there's no return! He sounds finatical, to me.
2007-10-30 08:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by ~ Floridian`` 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no offence but if your boyfriend is so religious what is he doing having intercourse before marriage it is haraam to engage in that type of intimacy before hand.
2007-10-30 08:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by ilona c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this guy is using you and playing you. STOP sleeping with him and find a good man.
2007-10-30 08:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
uhm...
yeah, so you're telling me he only showers once a week?
ughggh
that's disgusting
2007-10-30 08:34:43 · answer #6 · answered by FooFoo says dis ees boolsheet! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't walk, run away from this trick
2007-10-30 08:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex
2007-10-30 08:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋