The first love failure of mine has been the last love failure also. Maybe it taught me never to fool around with emotions/ feelings of people & never to take a love relationship as granted.
I was the one who messed up the love relation. It was a more than 5 years old relation. Only good thing about it is that I will never forget it & so will never make that mistake again. Sorry Love....and Thanks.
Star.
2007-10-31 01:27:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Your answer is in the question. You have to break it off completely and then not have any lingering contact. A breakup is like a death, and then it will hurt your heart a lot, and it may take a long time before you want to date again and before you don't think of him but it is the best for both of you. "I'm sorry, but I can't do this anymore. The long distance is too difficult for me, I can't keep putting up with the promises you make that are never fulfilled, and I can't keep putting up with your mother. I care about you and see your potential, but I just can't live like this. We have to stop talking, I can't see you anymore. Goodbye." just a suggestion, but too bad it can't be in person.
2016-04-11 03:03:10
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answered by Anonymous
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I haven't actually been in a real relationship yet mainly, because most guys I know are just friends I see them as nothing more...but there was this one guy I had a crush on and somehow we finally got together he seemed innocent little did I know he was totally different and in so many ways...he and I began talking and I told him that I am a Christian and after that he just started questioning me and asking me silly awkward question like am I a good girl and would I ever change from the :"churchy" girl and to me that was a complete turnoff but it hurt me because I really liked him .......but I see him everyday now and Life goes on and the wind still blows therefore I go on also ....
2007-10-30 10:10:35
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answered by Ablebaby 6
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No. I have relationships that ended, but they were not love.
If something really was love and ended, I would not consider that a faliure. What I consider a faliure is having been involved with people I didn't love. The result of that is that I have a little child whose father I can't stand. She I love, and I hope I don't fail at that.
2007-10-30 12:44:03
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answered by Acai 5
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I am 2x divorced I was not ready to have a relationship, didn't love the man, and felt pressured to marry as a way to get out of the house. I lived it and learned lots and lots and lots. Neither of us were ready to be adults and in an adult relationship. I am now happily in love, married and building a life with a wonderful man. Not sure this would have worked for us before we learned what we learned in life.
2007-10-30 07:13:14
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answered by litl m 4
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I am still dating the guy. I had a severe depression that drove him to be crude and mean to me. At the time I thought it was something wrong with him but after a long talk one day I saw it really wasn't mostly his fault but mine. Now that I'm better, we got back together and are closer then ever.
2007-11-01 16:01:11
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answered by injas87 1
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yes, it happened before i surrendered myself to Jesus and never knew God's love then... The love we had with my ex just faded and unknowingly as time goes we were not meant for each other after all...but now if ever i have a second love i surely follow what God has taught me and that is to love sincerely and accept him for what he is, not who he is... nobody is perfect in this world and no perfect relationship either but now i can reciprocate and handle love and relationship with a special man best for me through God's words...
2007-10-30 15:46:59
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answered by Angelique 4
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I fell in love first with a much older man online, but problems with my family started so i had to stop speaking with him, it broke my heart, but i had no choice, and i met someone else at a bowling alley cuz i was lonely and he and i started seeing eachother, i was with em for 9 mths, and it turned out he was abusive, a stalker, dangerous, a druggie, a drunk, a liar and a thief, and he threatened me one day and i called the man i fell in love with so many months before and told him to save me because i was in danger, he came and got me, other drama happned with my family, and now im living with him, married, and happier than ever.
2007-10-30 12:03:44
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answered by ~*~Adina Rose's Mommy~*~ 3
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Yes I have. His name was Paul and we dated my freshman year of high school. I thought he was the love of my life but he left me after he turned 18. I was 15 and he was a senior and said he couldn't be seen around such a person of young age anymore. Good Riddance to him!!!
2007-10-30 07:11:44
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answered by 1hotmama 7
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yes i had love faliure and it was reason thats me bcoz i dont belive myself that i ever can love a girl truly it changed me totally but after 3 months i was not in mood that how can ibe so obident and good boy and suudenly i told that i cant be ever in love so i am sory and i dont love u but after 2 years i think that i was very wrong and i want my love back but it is impoosible she loved me very much and i think she loves me today also but problem is that i dont no my mood and i cant be her for whole life
2007-10-30 19:19:46
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answered by rakesh k 2
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