I didnt think i'd hear from him. I wrote back, went back and forth until his answers turned into just 'nice' and 'yeah'
what the hell?? i was hoping he'd make plans with me for this week or something. i reacted silly, I said, so when are you stopping by? (; i live about 40 min away so he said, a little far for a weeknight, maybe weekend. I have driven to his place 3 times so i said, haha, i did it! I got no response so about 15 min later i wrote, i'm just kidding with you. He is a man of few words...but come on...I know he is looking for nothing serious, but i dont want to waste time with someone i wont see
2007-10-30 05:06:10 · 12 answers · asked by gally g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know he doesnt want anythign serious, i dont want anythign serious from him either, however i 'd like to have sex with him, we already have had it 3 times. I figured he'd invite me over this week. Whatver...story of my life...
2007-10-30 05:16:38 · update #1
how am i chasing when he contacted me first?
2007-10-30 05:17:05 · update #2
neither of us are married. I dont need him to be 'that' into me. Obviously he's interested since he texted
2007-10-30 05:25:08 · update #3
Thanks lilhails, that makes sense. I think we both know we dont want anything serious from each other, however i do want to know if we are going to see each other weekly, monthly or what. Otherwise i dont want to waste time thinking about him. I enjoyed being with him, if he is really wishy washy about things, he needs to just tell me and not text me.
2007-10-30 05:41:20 · update #4
call him instead of texting - it's easier and things won't get miscommunicated.
2007-10-30 05:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Passion Curls 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys like a chase. When your too available it is not a challenge anymore. Ignore him for a few days or for a week. Next time you get a text from him wait awhile to respond to him. Confusing I know because he sent the first text, but I am sure he didn't expect you send him a bunch back. I don't know, but I think most of us have waited by the phone waiting to hear from someone. People are so quick to judge forgetting that they have done the same thing in the past so ignore the rude comments.
2007-10-30 05:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by snowyniner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why are you playing games with him if you know what it is you want?? All this would save you alot of time if you just kept things friendly....Obviously, he feels the same way just by not responding back....It may not be that he's just a man with few words.....
2007-10-30 05:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and this guy have different things in mind, it's obvious. he doesn't feel like going out of his way to see you on a weeknight, and that should be a hint.
in my opinion, he'd go the extra mile if he were interested.
if you want a relationship with someone, this isn't the guy.
2007-10-30 05:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like you said it's nothing serious just a thing so don't be mad when he uses you and my guess is he sleeping with other people... Never throw yourself at a man let him chase you if he won't he's not worth your time...
2007-10-30 05:16:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are wasting your time with him and also you might be giving him the loose girl feeling which he might not like at all. It is possible.
2007-10-30 05:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds rather complicated i think its time to move on if he wont give you any answers as to when hes gonna see you an hes not answerin ur txts properly either, id ring him an say we need to talk, tell him how ur feelin an if he still messes u about then walk away
2007-10-30 05:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by lilhails 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
obviously hes just in it for one thing. take the hint. find someone else closer to home
2007-10-30 05:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Lee Ann C 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just by reading this I can tell he isn't into you.
Plus, you sound real "Needy" this guy isn't yours. Stop chasing him.....seriously.
2007-10-30 05:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
which one of you are married? or is this the wrong catagory?
if either of you are, you need to stop that...figure out how to enjoy your spouse..its safer..
2007-10-30 05:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by D.... 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋